Our Ultimate Goal in Homeschooling

I asked about your ultimate goal in homeschooling, but perhaps I worded the question ambiguously. There are many benefits to homeschooling; I agree wholeheartedly with most or all of the benefits put forth in comments to Wednesday’s post. But really, Why do you homeschool? What if homeschooling did not produce the benefits listed? Would you still homeschool?

In our household, our ultimate goal in homeschooling is to produce children who will serve and glorify God. Plain and simple. This is, after all, man’s chief end.

Next question: how does this affect our daily practice?
Should we just read the Bible to them, and call it a day?

Why do we teach them to read?
So that they can read God’s Word, enabling them to know Him and His will, learn the way to salvation, etc.

Now that they can read, why do we teach them history?
So that they can see God’s marvelous works of Providence acted out in history, and learn from the wisdom and the mistakes of past men and nations.

A necessity for good stewardship, and for a husband to provide for his family. Keeping a balanced checkbook helps us not to write rubber checks. Well managed finances help us pay our obligations. Many professions and household projects require a working knowlege of mathematics, geometry, etc. A wife needs a working knowledge of math to shop effectively for groceries. She needs to be able to teach her sons and daughters math, to prepare them for their respective roles.

Writing, spelling, and grammar?
Are these really useful when we are busy trying to glorify God and enjoy Him? Yes. We need to be able to communciate effectively – for a multitude of reasons that pertain to our service to God and fellow man.

Art, poetry, physical education?
All have a proper place in serving God. I think you can fill in the blanks as well as I can.

These are just a few, very limited examples. This is by no means a complete list – please help me add to it! The point is, academics ought to be thought of as a side effect, a benefit, but never an end in itself. Education must not become our God or our Savior. We do not homeschool so that our children can get a better education and hence a better job. We homeschool because God has given them into our care, with the command to raise them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. This is how we can best do it.

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  1. Wow. Wow. I am nearly speechless at that comment.

    Kim, I just found this article of yours (wonderful, btw) and the comment (totally bizarre, uninformed, brain-washed — stop me before I get too carried away). Sorry that I’m a little late, but hopefully my response will still be relevant.

    To any of Kim’s readers who may be pausing to reflect on what the NY teacher said, may I interject, “Don’t be fooled by it.”

    I am CarolynM from Guilt-Free Homeschooling (Kim linked to my website at the end of her post). I grew up in the public school system, so I do know what goes on there. This teacher has no clue. I am tempted to refute the teacher’s argument point by point, but that would be a waste of precious time. If you, Reader, attended public school, you have already remembered countless incidents that were in total contradiction to the rosy picture this teacher is trying to paint. If you, Reader, were homeschooled, you already know the superiority of the education you received at home.

    I can only conclude by saying that the news headlines today keep us all informed (sometimes too well) of exactly what is happening behind the closed doors of the school buildings. I removed my children from their control. How about you?

    Kim, keep up the great work, dear. You’re doing a fantastic job!

  2. northbrooklyn says:

    I am a nyc public school teacher. I have family in the high plains who homeschool. My information is limited on their approach-your blog is highly informative, which I very much appreciate.
    All that personal info aside-a public school education introduces a child to the world outside the home. It gives the parents an opportunity to see their child in a different light. Finally, the children get to see their parents interact in a most intimate way with another adult who does not have family ties.
    I think it is sad that you have decided to avoid the sometimes difficult and messy process of educating your children in the world they will inherit. By homeschooling, you have a much more limited parental experience-you miss the richest part of parenthood-that of watching your children become little by little and sometimes by leaps and bounds-men and women. Since you were homeschooled, your children will not learn, because you have not learned-interdependence-which is the keystone of our new century.

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