Amy’s 2yo was taken to the hospital yesterday with excessive vomiting, chills, hallucinations, and a fever of 105.4.
Please join us in prayer for little Rebekah and the rest of her family as they wait for a diagnosis.

Kaitlyn’s try it page

My Dad wants me to learn HTML for part of my school

One of the things I might do with the HTML I learn is make a new template for my blog.

My address is:

I did this whole post in the “Edit Html” tab.

I can make things backwards!

Put your cursor over TX, the two HTML, and RD.

About overly subtle wives. They worry about missing the little clues their wife leaves. About being oblivious to the signals she feels are too obvious to miss…

…I’m glad I DON’T have to worry about THAT

updated: crazy Blogger posted this rather than saving as a draft (at least I’m going to blame it on Blogger since I just found out). What’s worse, Blogger didn’t even have the common sense to post the complete version.
So if you read this post and wondered why I thought today was Thursday or whether a mother who can’t count to 13 really ought to be educating her own children, now you know the answers to your burning questions.

Today is my first Blogiversary, and since it falls on a Thursday it seems natural to make a list of my 13 favorite posts.

1. Ten Tips for a wife to encourage her marriage
2. Our Ultimate Goal in Homeschooling
3. Coming from a large family
4. Of Mules and Martyrs
5. Overpopulation
6. Will your kids be Christian?
7. A new can of worms: vaccinations
8. My Standard Disclaimer
9. Socialization
10. Kids are cheap
11. Abortion in America
12. Sarah
13. Birth, death and the curse

My wife recently received the following question from a reader of her blog.

Derek asks

“Kim,

My wife and I have recently been led by God to give our family’s size over to God’s will (i.e. – no more birth control), and consequently, I’ve been thinking about all the different aspects about having a big family (God willing). That being said, I will definitely be using your blog as a source of wisdom.

My question this time was about homeschooling and extracurricular activities. I want my children to be involved in some activities outside the house, but with so many children, how is that possible? My thought was that our family is going to have to limit it to a couple of organizations such as Boy Scouts and 4H.

What does your family do? Are any of your children involved in any activities or organizations outside the home? Just curious how other large families have handled this.

God bless”

Kim has posted her perspective on this HERE

I had a few thoughts as well.

My reply:

Derek,

As the head of your household you have to look at more than the logistics of getting to and from a lot of activities. That is, assume for a moment that my family had one activity for each of our 8 children outside the home every OTHER week. We would be on the go 4 nights a week.

Take for instance a once a month commitment for each of the kids: that is twice a week, plus wed church meeting for most families and grocery shopping on the one other night.

My point?

Once you have children your job as the father/ head of household is not to give them opportunities – although as a father, who doesn’t like to make fun things available to our kids?
Mat 7:9 Or what man is there of you, who, if his son shall ask him for a loaf, will give him a stone;
Mat 7:10 or if he shall ask for a fish, will give him a serpent?
Mat 7:11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father who is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

but your one sacred and holy duty before God when you have children is this …

Deu 6:3 Hear therefore, O Israel, and observe to do it; that it may be well with thee, and that ye may increase mightily, as Jehovah, the God of thy fathers, hath promised unto thee, in a land flowing with milk and honey.
Deu 6:4 Hear, O Israel: Jehovah our God is one Jehovah:
Deu 6:5 and thou shalt love Jehovah thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.
Deu 6:6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be upon thy heart;
Deu 6:7 and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. (emph mine)
See I have to constantly evaluate my family’s schedule in light of that command. Before we make commitments, we must as fathers evaluate what impact it will have on my ability to teach the commandments of the Lord to my children (i.e. how will 4h affect my family worship routine).

We must start with first things, like family worship, and move out from there. Once we lay the foundation of a rigorous routine of Scriptural study for our family, then we can try and fit other activities around THAT routine.

If we don’t start with the study and application of Scripture as the basis of our Christian family’s routine then we will end up as the fathers of old.

Jdg 2:10 And also all that generation were gathered unto their fathers: and there arose another generation after them, that knew not Jehovah, nor yet the work which he had wrought for Israel.
Jdg 2:11 And the children of Israel did that which was evil in the sight of Jehovah, and served the Baalim;