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Just a head-up to all you procrastinators out there (please, oh please tell me I’m not alone!):
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fourth trampoline…

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game is
Switch:is a very easy game, you and at least five other people run around the trampoline,
and the sixth person stands in midle shouting “switch”last person to fall wins.
Pancake:
Switch traffic jam:
Mother may I?:
Tricks and judge:
Fox and sheep:
Fox and geese:
Bowling ball:
King Kong tag:
Looney toon tag:
What’s the time Mr. Wolf?:
No way Jose:
Next time I post will tell about the next game

Our new chore list

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We have revised the division of labor in our house slightly. Here is the newest job list, enacted on December 2.

Deanna (13yo): bathroom, floors (includes vacuuming living areas, sweeping and mopping as necessary)

Kaitlyn (11yo): kitchen (all but washing dishes), surfaces (mirrors, windows, appliances, cabinets and bookshelves, all as-necessary)

Lydia (10yo): dining room (our school room, which accumulates a lot of stuff), wash/dry laundry. Laundry is still kept separate by room, so she does 1 load/day/room and notifies the residents of a room when they have clean laundry to fold and put away.

Megan (8yo): living room, animals (dog, cat, rabbits, gerbils)

Natalie (almost 7yo): trash, deck

Becca (5yo): make bed, help w/bedroom, be a helper to the older sister of her choice.

All children are responsible for their bedrooms; each is responsible to fold/put away her own laundry.
We do have some trouble making sure jobs get done w/o nagging. I find that almost any sort of reward/consequence program works so long as we consistently enact it and inspect jobs frequently. I think this is key, and most of the troubles we have in work quality and work ethic can be traced back to a failure on my part to hold the children accountable. Don’t misunderstand: they do very well overall and are a great help to me, but there is always room for improvement!

Ideally, jobs are maintained throughout the day, rather than just done once.
Honestly, Natalie and Becca have run under the radar for a while. They are capable of far more than they do right now, but Becca’s going to continue to slip by just a little while I focus on Natalie, who is ready and raring to go as an official Big Kid.

Dinner dishes are still done on rotating shifts. Natalie and Becca clear and wipe the table (it gets wiped again by somebody older).
They are both learning to do dishes as well, and sometimes do the breakfast or lunch dishes with very little help. They generally enjoy this, and I make sure somebody older puts away the dishes for them so they can be inspected.

Carnival of Kid Comedy

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Smacking Myself in the Forehead

I did it again – I let the week go flying past and didn’t even take a shot at assigning a guest host for the carnival.
Could some kind soul please rescue me from my lack of planning and just email to tell me when and where I should forward the submissions for their week of choice? Really. Just email and say, “Kim, send me all the carnival submissions for the December 19 carnival and I’ll host it.” You’ll be my best friend for life…or until the next person emails and claims Dec 26, or Dec 12…you get the idea.

Moving On

We have 2 weeks’ worth of entries this week and lots of newcomers, so strap on your seatbelt!
We have:

  1. Super-Mommy writes an open letter to Spitup Boy.
  2. The Harmoniser shares What children think about marriage.
  3. More4kids shares fun pics of son’s first birthday.
  4. The Bruggie family provides a collection of tales from Rose, proving the eleventh Reason for having children. (link corrected)
  5. Dana is chuckling over her 3yo’s first joke.
  6. Christa manages to find the humor in kid hysteria.
  7. Michael’s son Nathaniel knows that real men do play with dolls…they just do it on their own terms.
  8. Rhonda’s daughter has trouble with those tricky Old Testament names.
  9. The Melvilles’ 12yo has a plan to avoid at least one sticky situation.
  10. a Geek family knows how to laugh at themselves, and encourages us to join in.
  11. Little Trinity learns the hard way that you can have too much of a good thing.
  12. Lydia has figured out why hunters wear orange, in hunting according to Lydia.
  13. I had to laugh at what I overheard in the car.

And I found these in my own blog reading over the past two weeks. I found more, but lost them.

A hearty welcome to all the newcomers this week (there were several of you!), and a note to those whose blogs I read regularly: If you posted something funny and I forgot to save it for the carnival, well, it’s your own fault for not submitting it. hmph.

Overheard

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One sister to another:
“Please stop doing that. Stop that! Mom said you’re not allowed to purposely annoy people!”

reply:
“Well, you’re annoying me when you say that!”

Our Geneva Bible Pages site

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banner3 Our Geneva Bible Pages site
Maybe this isn’t of great interest to most of my readers, but I just have to tell y’all because I am so excited about it:
I learned over the weekend how to make my own template for the Geneva Bible Pages website. I had already hand-coded the entire site, but when I wanted to make a change to the pages I had to change each and every page separately.
I knew there had to be an easy way to make changes across all the pages at once and after spending way too much time looking for the answer, I found it! Yee haw!
Better yet, I was able to insitute it w/o a long hard learning curve. The time spent learning this was time well spent.
So if you are wondering why all the pages now end with .php, that’s why.
What, you didn’t even notice?

Keep the entries coming in our contest to win a free 400 year old Framed Geneva Bible Page! We’ll keep the contest open til midnight, Friday, December 8.

And look for our affiliate program soon!

And yet another praise to our Gracious Lord: the orders are coming in!

More on cold

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Can you stand to hear a resident of South Texas talk about the cold for yet another post?
We were too stingy when we left the water dripping last night, and woke to frozen pipes.
Yes, it does happen here, probably since we never expect it to happen and leave our pipes exposed.

We had just enough time to fuss and worry a bit and begin to formulate a plan. Then we had bad news from Megan that there was water spraying from the pressure tank, outside next to the well. Great. Broken pipe, too?
Hubby went out to investigate and found nothing but a pressure valve doing what it does best: letting off pressure, as the pipe on the well-side of the tank defrosted.
Praise God. Frozen pipes are far easier to deal with than frozen and bursting pipes. And now we had a water source – we could catch the water from the valve to fill buckets for the toilet, and maybe warm some on the stove to pour over the pipe that was still frozen.

But by 9:00 we were praising God again: in our 4th night of sub-freezing lows, this is the first time the pipes froze, and guess what? Today the weather warmed up far more quickly than the last several mornings!

We’re thankful today for running water. What are you thankful for?

Things to do on a cold morning

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  1. Drink coffee
  2. Vacuum: it puts out a lot of hot air!
  3. Laundry: the dryer generates a lot of heat.
  4. Bake (duh)
  5. Running the self-cleaning cycle on the oven.
  6. Take a hot shower, and close the drain. You’ll be standing in a warm bath and the cold bathroom will warm up much faster than if you let all that nice hot water run right down the drain.
  7. Wash dishes. I love a productive excuse to stand with my hands in hot water during cold weather!
  8. Any vigorous indoor job you’ve been putting off.
  9. Put a willing baby or toddler in a carrier. The exercise from carrying that extra weight will warm you up, and the snuggling will warm you both.
  10. Stay in bed and snuggle with your honey after the alarm goes off. icon smile Things to do on a cold morning

In which I think I’m cold, but have a change of attitude

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Yesterday Hubby took the 4 biggest girls to work with him, leaving me with 4 children 6yo and under.
We had a peaceful day, puttering about and doing the chores of the absentees, working together on dishes and meals and laundry.
We had a “tea party” lunch complete with cinnamon toast quarters on a glass pedestal, almonds in a glass candy dish, cheese chunks, and warm spiced apple juice (with cider at $5/gallon, we’re using juice and our imaginations). British accents abounded.
Since it was Friday, we made pizza together. While the 3 youngest napped, 6yo Natalie was my tireless sidekick, stirring dough, browning sausage (her first time!), patting out pizza crust. We were excited: this week we planned to take our pizza to Mom and Dad’s house for a pizza potluck of sorts.
This is where my little story begins to have a point.
I chatted on the phone with my mother-in-law as we prepared to head out the door. I groused a bit about all the big girls being gone: it was cold out there, and I don’t like cold! I would have to get 4 small children (2 of whom needed carrying) and 4 large pizzas (all of which needed carrying) out the door, down the 12 steep steps, and into the car. With no help over 4′ tall.
This was going to take 3 or 4 trips in and out, up and down. And something or somebody was bound to be pretty cold by the time it was done.
My mother-in-law asked why I didn’t call a family member 1/2 mile away to come help, and I replied that there wasn’t really much point to that: it would take them 20 minutes to drive over, help and drive back. I could be done with the unpleasant part in 5 minutes. I just felt like complaining.
So we took the plunge: Hubby had taken the van to work and we had his little car. Several trips later, Hubby’s little car was packed with 4 large pizzas, 1 adult, 2 smallish children, 1 toddler, 1 baby, a carseat, and a few other odds and ends. The kids spotted Hubby’s special stash of Pecan Sandies between the seats and begged, but I said no. “Those are Dad’s cookies.”
I looked in the ignition and saw: No Key.
I checked the dashboard: No Key.
Between the seats, perchance? No Key.
Did I mention it was cold?
Did I mention that we currently have only one key to this car?
My heart sank, and trudged back up the steps to call Hubby.
He had just left work and was on his way home. My throat was a little tight, and I struggled not to be terse. “Please tell me you don’t have the key to the car.”
Technically, he didn’t have the key to the car. It was on his desk at work, with his other keys. Since he was driving the van with my keys, he forgot to grab his own keyring. He had to turn around and go back for it. I was cold and feeling less than sympathetic.
I called my dad for a ride, and went back down to the car so the children and I could freeze together as a family. I really didn’t want to haul everyone back up the steps and out again in 5 minutes.
Just for spite, we ate Hubby’s cookies.
Maybe I had been suffering from crabby blood sugar, because as we sat there I realized something: it wasn’t all that cold, especially inside the car. It was not nearly as cold as it had been the night before when Hubby locked his keys in the car in the Hobby Lobby parking lot. He was locked out. Last night, two hours after he had asked me to pray for him because he was so very weary from long hours and multiple errands this week, he was standing out in the Real Cold. He was also standing in Cold Wind and Darkness. He didn’t get home last night until after 10:00.
And I was whining about waiting in the car 5 minutes for someone to come pick me up. I gave myself a proverbial smack in the forehead.
[BTW, honey, sorry for eating your cookies. I left you 2 of them.]
I was suddenly very thankful for my circumstances: a car to sit inside, an evening warm enough that we weren’t suffering as I had expected, family members who were happy to hop in their van on a moment’s notice and pick us up, a husband who left cookies where I could find them in my moment of spite need.
It also occurred to me that we should be thankful that I had discovered the missing key when I did. Hubby had just left work, and needed to work the following day (today), and would have sorely needed that key (and the others with it) this morning. By God’s kind providence, my lack of a key reminded Hubby to go back for his keys.
So in the end, we arrived at my parents’ house and shared a pizza dinner with my parents and 6 or 8 of my sibs, my brother-in-law, and my chubby little niece who is 10 days younger than our baby. Hubby and the 4 bigger girls arrived a little after 8:00 and had their pizza. We visited through the haze of my dad’s cigarette smoke, laughing and talking and cooing over babies who cooed over each other.
Because the car was at home, we were all able to ride home together in the van.
And we all lived happily ever after.

Boys vs. girls

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I’ve been asked many times if having a boy is different than having girls.
Yes. He burps bigger, poops more, toots louder, and he’s always hungry.
But I have noticed another difference: I love all of my children, but I love him very differently from the way I love my daughters.
I love my daughters in part because they are Little Me’s. Like Ephesians 5:29 says, No one ever hated his own body.
In my daughters, I see little women, future moms, little people with kneecaps shaped just like the ones I looked down at 30 years ago. They remind me of my own childhood, and I see my own feelings and expressions reflected in their little faces, my own strengths and weaknesses exposed in their character. Yes, they have their share of Daddy in them too, but they are girls.
I can’t help but love them because I am their mom and they are my daughters.
I feel differently about my son.
When I look at him, I see my husband in miniature: a little man who looks at me with adoring eyes. I love him because he is his father’s son, and has his father in him. It seems safe to assume that he will share in his dad’s strengths and weakness, and display many of his mannerisms. He certainly looks like him already.
In my son, I see a little man who will someday soon want to protect and care for his women – his sisters, his mom, and someday his wife. I can’t wait for him to be a swaggering 3yo who rushes to stomp scorpions on his sisters’ behalf. I know it will happen – I can already see it in the way he watches them.
When I was 13, I remember my 5yo brother having nightly dreams about rescuing his mom and 4 older sisters from dragons and Bad Men and monsters. We laughed at the time, but now I see where those dreams come from, and I can’t wait for my little guy to have them. I’ll have to tell his sisters not to laugh too loudly.

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