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Challies on educational methods

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The enemies of God see clearly that education is a means to an end. It is not neutral. Throughout history, they have unabashedly used educational systems in their attempts to steal the hearts of the next generation.

When an opponent declares, “I will not come over to your side, I calmly say, ‘Your child belongs to us already…What are you? You will pass on. Your descendants, however, now stand in the new camp. In a short time they will know nothing else but this new community…
…This new Reich will give its youth to no one, but will itself take youth and give to youth its own education and its own upbringing.”
Adolph Hitler

Tim Challies has posted a lengthy article graciously rebutting my own answer to why we homeschool. Although he broadly denied the applicability of Deuteronomy 6 and seems to doubt the godless foundations of the modern public school system, he said little of what he actually believed about either point.

I’ll be composing an answering post, but in the meantime don’t miss the lively discussion over there.

I have to confess that I’m at a bit of a loss as I try to understand how Mr. Challies and many other Christian parents can reconcile their opinion of the public school system with their choice to send little ones into it.
On the one hand, they openly admit that the system is indeed teaching children a different worldview, one that goes against what Christians strive to teach their children, a worldview that careful Christian parents must actively guard against and unteach their children.
They may even praise the particular school that their own children attend and the Christian teachers in the school. They assure us that this school is better than most. And some parents provide an extra layer of protection by volunteering at the school to keep an eye on what they are being taught so they will be aware of issues that need to be addressed from a better perspective.
I love comment #55 from Mr. Challies’s post:

The only Christian kids who I have seen maintain their witness are those who had parents agressively discussing with them, interacting with them, and who remained very involved in their childrens lives throughout their public schooling. In many cases, this would be much more work than placing your kid in a Christian school or homeschooling them. It’s like receiving little bits of venom, so you can build up an immunity. You are definitely protected against it but you could always just carry the antivenom with you and forgo all the painful steps of building that immunity.

Even if he and others deny the roots of the system, we do seem to agree on the nature of it today.
So tell me again, how can we say that we are doing our utmost to fulfill God’s charges to raise our children in the training and admonion of the Lord (Eph 6:4), train them up in the way they should go (Pr. 22:6), teach them His words (Deut 6:7), not cause them to stumble (Matt 18:6), and so on…how can we send them into that system and say we’re doing our best?

I ask this in all honesty: Knowing that the system as a whole works in opposition to a Christian worldview, how can a Christian parent believe, based upon Scripture, that public schools are an obedient option, let along The Best Way to train up their children?

Kid Comedy

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My kids were funny this week – I promise they were – but I didn’t take notes because we were too busy watching Hoops and Yoyo talk about manners.

We did get a good laugh out of The Boy’s sudden enthusiasm for raising his hands and singing, “AAAAAHHHHHH!” whenever he hears the doxology or the Gloria Patri in church. He practiced throughout the service, but when his big chance finally came he was in the nursery on the changing table.
He didn’t let this discourage him though. When he heard the familiar tune coming through on the nursery monitor, he raised holy hands and sang along with the rest of us!

So, what did your children do to make you laugh this week? I know I saw some great posts on readers’ blogs, but you’re going to have to help me out here. Leave your link and share the joy!

Fun lessons on manners

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hoops Fun lessons on mannersDo you know about Hoops and Yoyo? You’ll either love them or find them incredibly annoying. I think they’re adorable in a hyperactive way. It helps that my sweet hubby sends me e-cards featuring these guys, so I get warm fuzzies every time I see them.
Here’s a great way to meet them:

Hoops & Yoyo talk about manners
Hoops and Yoyo demonstate the right way and the wrong way to handle 9 different situations.
This will give you and your kids some good laughs and plenty to talk about. I even had them try to explain what the characters did wrong in each case or guess what they would do wrong before they saw it.
I especially appreciated lesson about asking to go out and play. I would like to dedicate it to each and every one of my children.
Ya got that, kiddos?

  1. opening a door
  2. using a napkin
  3. blowing your nose
  4. asking to go out and play
  5. wash your hands!
  6. hallway “how are ya?”
  7. how to open a Christmas present
  8. the big SNEEZE
  9. talking with your mouth full

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Homeschool Q & A

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I recently received a question in my inbox. Since I took the time to type up an answer and since it’s not the first time I have received questions like this, I’m taking the liberty of cc’ing the World Wide Web on my answer.
To the asker: I hope you don’t mind. Just for the record, I wrote the answer to and for you personally. The idea to post it here was an afterthought. I’ve taken out your name, but feel free to chime in if you’d like!

Question:
I have been reading your blog recently, really enjoy the site! I found it while looking for homeschoolers online. I have a four year old that I haven’t even started teaching yet, but I have already been subjected to so many “opinions” from people about homeschooling. Just tonight, two women at church were talking about what THEY viewed the negative affects of
homeschooling were. Could I ask, what motivated you to make the choice to educate your own children, and what has sustained your decision when other people put their two bits in?

Answer:
The decision to homeschool was an easy one for us, since my husband and I were homeschooled ourselves. Our parents were the brave pioneers who went against the grain and weren’t afraid to be different.
This is not *why* we homeschool, but it certainly made it easier for us to do what we believe is right, even when people doubt us.
To put it simply, we believe that God has entrusted these children of His to our care, with a charge to train them up in the way they should go (Prov 22:6), to raise them in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Eph 6:4), to speak of Him with and to our children when we rise up and lie down, in the house and out, through every part of our days and our lives (Deut 6:4-9).
We can’t do this if we send them away for 8-10 hours/day.
There are other issues at work as well: the inherent corruption of the government school system is a big one. The system was conceived upon the tenets of Marxism and Darwinism, is paid for by theft, openly indoctrinates children into secular humanism and all the abominations that flow from it.
I would love to hear about the “negatives” of homeschooling. I think that many of the standard objections are based upon the false presupposition that institutionalized schooling is a good thing and homeschoolers ought to try to duplicate it in their homes. These people miss the point: we are not trying to do school like they do, but better. We are educating our children in an entirely different way because we have entirely different goals.

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If you are not a Christian then this post was not written for you. The commands God laid on His people to raise their children in His fear have no hold on you.

If you are a Christian and you were hoppin’ mad by the time you finished reading this post then I’m glad you are here. I am not pointing my finger at you, yelling that you and your kids are all going to hell. But I do want you to stop and think – again – about your decision to let your children spend their early years in a godless institution. Would you send your children to a Muslim school just because some of the teachers were professing Christians? There is a preponderance of evidence available to prove that the modern public school system in America is firmly grounded in the religion of secular humanism. Why is that any better?

Jesus said, “He who is not with me is against me.” There is no neutrality in education. Textbooks publishers are not neutral. Educational methods are not neutral.

There is a right and a wrong in this issue.
We must use the Bible to judge between right and wrong, and we must act in clear conscience (Rom 14:5). Each of us will answer to God for our decisions (Rom 14:12). You will stand before God and answer for the way you raised your kids. I will stand before God and answer for the way I raised mine.

This is my statement of what we sincerely believe the Scriptures to teach. If I am wrong I humbly invite you to demonstrate this from the Word of God.

If you read all the way to the bottom and you’re still really mad, you might need to have a look at my standard disclaimer. Then again, it might just made you madder…

WFMW: Better than birthday cake

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Shannon is doing a Birthday themed Works For Me Wednesday this week and the ideas are a’flyin!
Here’s my own contribution:

We don’t do a birthday party every year for every child. They’re a bit hit-or-miss. Sometimes we procrastinate until it’s entirely too late. Sometimes we do something fun as a family instead.
But when we do have a party, there is always dessert.
After many years of decorating birthday cakes Wilton-style, we realized that they look far better than they taste. After I spent 2 hours laboring over a floury smiling Pooh Bear with a tube of homemade icing, nobody wanted to eat my masterpiece.
Now we know better. We usually let the birthday child choose a dessert – almost any dessert – for their birthday party. The best ones are do-it-yourself, because the kids are kept busy longer get to make it just the way they want it.
In the do-it-yourself category, we have done ice cream sundaes, banana splits, decorate-your-own cupcakes.
The kids have also requested brownies & ice cream, jello parfaits, giant cookies, ice cream cake (like DQ but homemade – surprisingly easy!), or any other special dessert recipe they’ve been itching to try.
Other fun stuff that happens on or around a birthday:

  • The birthday child gets the day off her chores. They invariably ask for the day off school “because that’s what we always do” and I invariably say no.
  • Dad takes the birthday kid out to birthday lunch (this usually means a day at work with Dad)
  • The birthday child sometimes (when I remember) gets to request a favorite dinner
  • new: Mom takes the birthday kid out for a birthday ice cream or coffee. This was the Dad’s idea, but if it involves coffee for me, I am On Board.

Answers to the Epstein’s lies

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Last updated:
Tuesday, May 1, 5:00 PM to add link to info about an “Epstein Co-conspirator” fired by a Supreme Court Justice, at bottom

Praise God.
A long and vicious campaign of slander against Doug Phillips may finally come to an end.

My husband I are deeply grieved by the persistent slander against our dear friends Doug Phillips, Beall, and all the other godly people at Boerne Christian Assembly.

We have remained silent because we did not want to answer a fool according to his folly or grab a dog by the ears. But (and we recognize that some will not be persuaded) the leadership at BCA has made another answer to the constant lies being spread around the internet.

If you are not familiar with the slanderous fictions that the Epsteins are telling and with the lies they are spreading then count your blessings. If you are aware of the accusations, this is the time to put an end to gossip. I would encourage you to familiarize yourself with the facts and let the lies be put to rest.
The godly men and women have made an answer to them once again and we pray that you will join us in praying for our brothers and sisters at BCA as they weather these vile attacks from this family who is in open rebellion against God and His church.

If one gives an answer before he hears,
it is his folly and shame. Proverbs 18:13

The one who states his case first seems right,
until the other comes and examines him. Proverbs 18:17


Since the Epsteins have decided to send their latest round of attacks out to homeschoolers around the country via private emails, please share the links below with anyone who may be aware of the Epsteins’ accusations against Doug Phillips and Boerne Christian Assembly.

Faith PCA Responds to Epsteins
http://www.boernechristianassembly.org/faith.html

Statement by Living Waters Fellowship (Little Bear Wheeler)
http://www.lwfchurch.org/statement.html

added to this post 4/26:
Statement by Attorney Ed Watt on Allosaur Mediation
Statement from Dr. John Morris, President, ICR

NEW:
For those seeking further clarification, Vision Forum has now provided an official response, along with an email address that will provide additional information on a need-to-basis. This includes a strong statement by a local San Antonio home educators’ association leader.
Before submitting a request, individuals are exhorted to consider the effects of being exposed to lies and talebearing.

Proverbs 16:28 A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.

Proverbs 18:8 The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.

Official Vision Forum response

Epstein Co-conspirator Fired by Supreme Court Justice from Position of Public Trust for Assisting Jennifer Epstein. Supreme Court Justice Describes Epstein Conspiracy as ?Vile Scheme.?