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I heart my dentist

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It amazes me how worked up we can get over little things.  Conversely, it amazes me how easily God can make those worries go away.  Maybe not conversely – I’m not exactly sure what the word means, but it seems to fit well in the phrase.  You know what I mean, right?

We go to a dental office where we know and love the staff and they know and love us.  We have a lot of teeth in our household and we bring them a lot of business.  They show their gratitude by treating us well – unexpected charges or those denied by insurance are often reduced or written off, and they do they do their best to accommodate us in other ways as well.

But when Megan lost a relatively new filling, I was less than happy.  I have a mouthful of fillings, many of which date back over 25 years.  I have never lost one.

When they charged us to replace a nearly new filling, I was even less happy.  Instead of paying the bill right away, I set it aside to discuss the next time I was at the office.

Then Megan lost a second filling, also nearly new.

When I called and left a message politely disputing the charge for the first and mentioning the second, I didn’t receive an answer.  Maybe it was just pregnancy hormones, but customer satisfaction levels were plummeting at this point.

A couple of weeks passed and I was finally in the office last week for two other children’s appointments.  My stomach was tense and I was not looking forward to talking to them about the filling issues, but I also didn’t want to let it slide.  I finally gathered my nerve and went to the desk.

“I know I need to make a payment today, but first I want to talk to somebody about some charges – really just one charge.”

She smiled and looked up our account.  She began to run down a short list of charges, and I stopped her at Megan’s.  I began to explain that the filling they were replacing had been very recent and -

“Oh, I’ll take that off then.  We don’t want to charge you twice!  I’m sorry we missed it…”

So I left happy.  Just like that.  All that quiet stress and discontent over nothing.  How much of life is just like that?

Who’s in Houston?

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Besides us, I mean. Our family is in Houston for the Southeast Texas Home School Association Gulf Coast Home Educator’s Conference 2008 – or the Houston Homeschool conference, as I prefer to call it. I can hardly remember my own children’s names; how in the world would I retain and recall a name like that?

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Is anybody planning on attending? Stop by the Vision Forum booth and have a look at my big fat ankles say hi in real life. If you don’t find me there, I’m probably in the restroom. I’ll be back in a minute, because no doubt I need to sit down and find a place to put up my left foot.

The later you come, the fatter my ankles will be, so plan your fun accordingly.

I am funny

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I know this because today I saw a whole family in the truck next to me burst into laughter one by one as they looked over at me.

Although it was early in the day, my feet were already swelling. As usual, the left was far worse than the right. I like driving when this happens because it’s the easiest way to keep my left foot elevated above my heart. I just slip off my sandal and rest my left foot up on the dash.

Very comfy and highly effective.

And apparently very funny looking.

As the truck pulled up next to me, I saw one passenger look over and burst into laughter. He tapped the shoulder of the woman next to him, and she stared wide-eyed before the laughter set in. The driver looked at them like they were nuts, then glanced my way. He felt the same as they did. The truck was nearly rocking with their merriment.

I thought briefly about lowering my foot to a more dignified position, then decided that I would rather bring joy to onlookers. I was obviously the high point of their day; why should I let my own pride so selfishly take that away from them?

How did they not see this coming?

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One sad side effect of abortion has been that the proponents of this atrocity are killing themselves off. They rarely have enough children to replace themselves and their husbands (I can hardly bring myself to use the generic term partner).

But now another effect is being observed. Due to sex selection, especially in poorer nations, the gender balance is being tilted – away from women. A practice that has been promoted and touted as women’s rights is resulting in the gradual extermination of women around the world.

Sex-selective abortion is a fact of life in India, where the gender ratio has declined to 1,000 boys to 900 girls nationally, and as low as 1,000 boys to 300 girls in some Punjabi cities.

In China, the state-enforced “one child” policy has brought about the most gender-distorted demographic cohort in global history… If you can only have one kid, parents choose to abort girls and wait for a boy, to the point where in the first generation to grow to adulthood under this policy there are 119 boys for every 100 girls.

In practice, a “woman’s right to choose” turns out to mean the right to choose not to have any women.

And what of the Western world?…

Read more here. I don’t necessarily agree with all the conclusions of the author, but the trend itself seems undeniable and fully predictable.

Nesting projects

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Just like every other woman on the face of the earth, I feel a need to wrap up household projects before the arrival of a new baby.  Since our house is a work in progress, this presents plenty of options.

Last time, hubby indulged me by mudding, sanding, texturing and painting the ceiling over the dining room and 2 of the 3 bedrooms in our house.light 300x200 Nesting projects

This time, he has already hung the dining room light (hurray for light! double hurray for no more ugly hole in the ceiling!).  We also worked a bit more on the cabinets under the new computer counter: bought and stained a third cabinet and the panels to finish the sides of all 3 cabinets.  I just might fasten them on today.

He also took his big, manly chainsaw out in the woods and made big, manly noises while thinning the brush and undergrowth so that we could actually walk through our woods.  He came back with blood on his legs.  What a man.

I think we’re also hoping to finish up the mud, texture and paint in the bathroom.  There’s just a little bit to do, but it’s messy detail work, and set up and clean up always take as much time as the actual job.

Hubby has mentioned maybe – just maybe - building a roof over part of the deck.  This would be wonderful, because it will give me a shady place to labor in late June/early July.  Last time he rigged up a couple ladders and large blankets in a complicated configuration, but a roof would be so much more classy.

And this is asking a lot, but I would really, really love to extend the kitchen/dining room tile into the living room before the baby arrives.  We already have the tile, so we would just need to buy the plywood to go under.  And we’d have to empty 3 enormous bookshelves for a couple of days.  And move the 2 sofas out.  And measure, cut and screw down the plywood.  And apply floor leveling compound.  And paint the plywood.  And then lay the vinyl tile.

See?  I’m asking a lot, especially since I have a hard time reaching the floor.  But everyone knows how demanding pregnant women can be, right?

My Photo Shoot

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Today Perry was making the cutest faces while he ate animal crackers, so naturally, I ran and got the camera.

This is my personal favorite and the only one here, that I didn’t tell him to do. I just positioned the camera and waited. On all of the others, I had some candy and I was saying, “Here Boy! make a face! if you make a face then you get this!” He cooperated admirably. Really if I hadn’t told you, would you have been able to tell that his faces were put on?

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This one I think shows his personality really well. The mischievous sparkle in his eyes, the crooked grin, the button nose…I could go on forever. icon wink My Photo Shoot

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With this one, he was beginning to lose interest in his end of the deal, he has his eye firmly trained on the candy in my hand, and he’s starting to get cranky about making faces, but he’s still cute.

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This is Mom’s favorite and she suggested, can any of you guys think of a caption for this pic?

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False labor and more on pregnancy

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With just 3 1/2 weeks until my duedate, I’ll have to apologize in advance if nearly every post has something to do with pregnancy, labor and/or childbirth.  Oh, and swollen feet.  I can’t forget those, even if they are getting hard to see.  Just for the record, I want you all to know that I can still paint my toenails.  It helps that I can also hold my breath for 2 minutes.

I’m having tons of false labor now – at some point around 7 months, my Braxton-Hicks contractions usually just evolve into false labor, which eventually becomes real labor and then there’s a baby.  In one sense, I have 2 months of labor.  In another, I have 2 hours since I often don’t realize it’s really real labor until it’s well under way.

For those who are wondering, I do plan to live-blog this birth.  Last time blogging was a fun way to pass the time, and this time it should be easier since I’m truly wireless now – last time I was blogging from a desktop.  Now I can take the laptop wherever I’m most comfortable, even the little birthing pool which will be out on the deck.

It’s almost time to place bets on the baby’s birthdate, weight and gender.  I would love to deliver another boy right on my duedate, which our son’s birthday, but that seems unlikely so I’ll let slip that I’m also thinking of the 4th of July, which falls on a Friday this year.  That is 6 days after my official duedate of June 28th.  I have a strong pattern of carrying late, going into labor on Thursdays, having long slow labors, and delivering on holidays or previously claimed birthdays.  All of this seems to combine to make Independence Day an ideal prospect. (read my brief birth stories 1-4 and 5-8)

What do you think?  Could it happen?

A vitamin question from my friend

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My real life friend Steph asked,

Hey, Kim!  I hope you can help me with a suggestion.  I like the idea of your Super Mom vitamins, and I desperately need something that can provide more energy.  But I’ve never been able to swallow large pills.  Do you know of any good ones that are comparable, but small?  I’m talking the size of a Tylenol or so; that’s about as  big as I can get down!  If you don’t know of any, do you think you could ask your readers?
Your wimpy friend (in more ways than one),
Steph
All the advice I can offer is that I’ve heard of some doctors recommending a children’s chewable vitamin for moms too “wimpy” to swallow the standard horse pill.  Does anyone else have a more sophisticated suggestion?  Or a favorite flavor?  I like the purple ones myself…

A poll on swollen feet

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I was complaining yet again about my chronically fat feet and a friend asked me if my feet had swelled with The Boy.  The reason she asked is because she has one boy and one girl, and found that she swelled horribly with her boy but not a bit with her girl.

Strangely enough, the only bit of swelling I’ve ever had outside this pregnancy was with The Boy.  Never a hint with any of the girls.

Now I’m wondering: is it a gender tipoff?  Did you ever notice any correlation between the gender of your expected baby and your tendency to swell more or less or not at all?