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Happy birthday to Life In A Shoe!

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Today is my 4th blogging anniversary.  On this day 4 years ago, I created a username on blogger so that I could leave a comment on hubby’s new blog-thing. At the prompt from google, I picked a name for my blog on the spur of the moment.  I didn’t really plan to use it, but it was part of the process.  Then I threw up a quick post so my own “blog” wouldn’t be totally empty.

Hubby emailed me a few blogs that he thought I might like to read, and I was hooked.  I made friends online, and met some of them in real life as well.  I have even run into a few real-life friends from long ago.

The kids started blogs of their own and we eventually combined all of the family blogs into one, right here.

We cycled through several headers, each one better than the one before.

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Now, over 2,000 posts later, I think I’ve forgotten more than I remember.  The kids and I sometimes read our archives and reminisce over things that happened long ago – things that otherwise would have passed out of time and mind.

I have a favor to ask of you. Would you mind telling us some of your favorite posts from our blog?  The funniest, the most helpful, the most encouraging, the most thought provoking…what do you consider to be our best, and why?  I hope it doesn’t sound narcissistic, but I’ve been meaning to compile a list for new readers, but I can’t remember most of what I’ve posted and I’m surely not the best person to present an objective opinion on the matter anyway.

Thanks, y’all.  I love blogging!

We made it!

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This year we spent the entire spring and summer without a/c.   Maybe you live up north and don’t have air conditioning, but we’re in south Texas.  We’re farther south than the southern border of California.  We’re way down there.  And we did it.

We’ve had a record number of triple-digit days this year, but we made it.  We only turned on the 2 little window units twice, for company, and all the windows were open at the time.

According to the forecast at AccuWeather.com, the high temps for our little town for the next 2 weeks should range from just 90-93 degrees, and then it’s just one more week until fall is officially here!    That sounds positively comfortable.   Maybe they’re wrong, but the very thought of sub-100 temps makes me giddy.

Do you know what else makes me giddy?  The thought of all the money we saved by not running the air.  We didn’t just save what we spent on air last year.  This year was much hotter, so we would have spent much more.   Ironically, we probably would have spent more and been less comfortable, since the little window units wouldn’t have been able to keep the house comfortable.  They would have run constantly, but it would have been a losing battle.

Another advantage: we didn’t experience cabin fever.  If the a/c was running, we would have spent all summer crowded together, huddled inside the stuffy house because it was 15 degrees cooler than outside.  Instead, we spent a lot of time both inside and out – on the deck, on the trampoline, and visiting our new chickens.  The kids explored the woods and climbed trees, and fashioned a makeshift seesaw out of a long plank and a paint scaffold.  I still haven’t gone to look at it.  I don’t want to.

And finally, not having a/c at home made leaving the house more pleasant.  The a/c in our van works, but not well.  To our acclimated bodies, it wasn’t bad.  The desperate run from the air conditioned vehicle to the air conditioned grocery store wasn’t desperate at all.  While others looked sweaty and uncomfortable, most of us felt very little inclination to complain.

Don’t get me wrong: there was complaining through the course of the summer.  Some of us adapt more easily than others, and some are more prone to complaining than others.   Some of us vacillate between the two groups.  Some simply didn’t understand why were weren’t using the air.

It certainly wasn’t easy, especially at first.  But it got better even as the temperatures rose.  100 now feels far more comfortable than 85 did in the early spring.  God’s design for the human body is wonderful.  We can adapt, and when the need presents itself we do.

In the end I feel triumphant.  And I feel crisp and cool, even though it’s 7:30 PM and 92 degrees.

Now I’m wondering if we could adjust to winter temps without heat.   I’m also wondering if the very suggestion would result in a mutiny.  Maybe next year…

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If you’re wondering why I didn’t post here, it’s because I posted about yesterday’s grocery trip over at Frugal Hacks instead.  There’s a guessing contest and a giveaway so be polite and go take a peek.  You know you want to.

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Our $500 egg

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Finally, the blessed event has happened.

It started back in the spring when my uncle built us a nice big chicken coop – chicken palace, my dad calls it.  It’s an 8 x 10 shed built mostly of free materials, though we did have to buy the roofing materials and some odds and ends.  We ended up spending more than we expected for a chicken coop, but we wanted it to be a durable and versatile building.

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Then we bought 16 mixed breed pullets.  They were about 2 months old, so we knew it would be a long time before they started laying.  We lost one immediately – she got loose and never looked back -  but overall our mortality rate was low.

Then we bought a dozen week-old chicks from the local feed store.  There were a few each of Barred Rocks, Auracanas, and Buff Orpingtons.  I wanted some that were likely to make good brooders.

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They all lived in harmony, chickie ladies and chickie babies.  The babies are so tame that they run under our feet like cats, begging for scraps whenever we’re near.  They let us hold them and pet them.  They like us, and we like them.  They eat from our hands.

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We had a nice family-sized flock, and were looking forward to eggs in a few months.

At first, the chickens ate scraps and foraged.  The level in the feeder stayed surprisingly stable.

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Then I found a deal I couldn’t refuse and bought 22 more pullets.  These were bigger and a little older, Cochin/Auracana crosses.  THey were cute and funny-looking.  Many of them were tailless and they had big round bodies.  They looked like feathered basketballs.  They mature slowly, so even though they were a little older than our original group we knew they might take a bit longer to start laying.  I didn’t intend to keep them all.  Some were for my mom when her chicken house was ready, and I knew I could sell extras for more than we paid.

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We now had a large flock.  Our chicken house was at capacity.  When the basketball chickens arrived, the level in the feeder started dropping rapidly.  We began buying a bag of feed nearly every week.

We estimate that so far we have invested nearly $500 in total.  That’s ok with us.  We have some broody breeds and hope to spend very little to replenish the flock over the coming years.  We expect to have no trouble eating 1-2 dozen eggs/day, and we know we can give away or sell plenty more.

We waited, and waited.  We suspected that some of the hens were old enough to begin laying but the triple-digit temperatures have discouraged them.  A few have died in the past weeks, probably from the heat.  They have plenty of shade and water, but the heat has been relentless.

And now, today, it finally happened.  Lydia found this in the nesting box, right where it belongs.

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Courtesy of this gracious young lady:

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It will be our most expensive egg ever, but they’re practically free after this.

Rules I never thought to tell them

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I think we all have this list tucked away somewhere, and everyone’s list looks different.  Here’s the Headmistress’s list.  I would love to know what’s on yours.

First, a few basics:

    1. If you learned it from Calvin and Hobbes, it’s probably not allowed.
    2. Emulate The Three Stooges and Little Rascals with great caution.
    3. Don’t be stupid on purpose.

    And some specifics:

    1. Do not play in the dryer. Do not turn on the dryer while somebody else plays inside.
    2. Don’t hold a 5 lb. bag of elbow macaroni upside down and shake it to test the zipper seal.
    3. If you must play Catholics-and-Protestants-at-the-Inquisition, please do it quietly.  For the neighbors’ sake.
    4. Don’t drink up the leftover communion wine at church.
    5. Rough-housing does not mean it’s ok to push your friend down the basement stairs and lock the door.  Even if you’re already remorseful, you will be punished.
    6. Don’t color on puppies. Especially not Golden Retriever pups.  Especially not with a black permanent marker.
    7. Don’t pour water inside plaster walls on the second floor.  I don’t care if you think there’s a rat in there.
    8. Don’t hold down little boys and punch them, even if somebody just finished explaining that little boys like to play rough.
    9. If you find old gum stuck to the bottom of a chair, it will not be funny when you stick in your dad’s hair.
    10. I know it’s cool that the tree branch makes snapping noises when you stand on it, but that doesn’t mean you should jump up and down.
    11. Don’t try to cut holes in the floor with a butcher knife.  I don’t care how realistic your dream was.  You will not find a secret tunnel leading to your grandma’s house in Tennessee.
    12. Don’t cut holes in your sister’s underwear and put them on the dog. Even if I laughed when you did it, don’t do it again.
    13. Do not rifle through your uncle’s pockets while he is sleeping.
    14. Do not dig 4 ft. deep pits in a city yard and threaten to bury your little sister.
    15. Do not hide on the roof. I don’t care if you’re playing hide-and-seek and can’t find a better place.
    16. Sliding down the stairs in a sleeping bag might be fun, but I don’t approve.
    17. Don’t have mud fights with the neighbor boy.  I don’t care who started it unless it was you.  Then you’re in even more trouble.
    18. If you eat bugs in any form – including fried walking stick bugs with cheese – don’t tell me about it.  Again.  Yes, it’s very cool that the rocks were hot enough to cook them outside, but I still don’t want to know.
    19. Just believe the TV for once when they tell you not to lick a frozen telephone pole.  Extend this to include the side of the ice cream maker, the ice tray, and the inside of the freezer door.
    20. Don’t play in the laundry chute, even if you saw your uncle doing it first.  Nor should the cat be encouraged to do so.
    21. Ask before you decide to walk to the library.  Especially if you’re 4yo.

    For Sale

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    posted by Lydia

    I am saving for a Border Collie.  The reason I want a Border Collie is we have some friends that have a dog that we think might be part Border Collie. She is one of the sweetest dogs I have ever seen!! And on our way up to Branson MO we visited several people and it just happened that most of them had Border Collies.   So I hope to get one soon. I love dogs!!!

    I have several things for sale,

    1. Under Drake’s Flag. The top two corners a little banged up but not very bad at all. Regular price $22. Will sell for $10.
    2. The World of the Trapp Family. The bottom right corner is dinged up a little but besides that it is in like new condition. Regular price $25. Will sell for $12.
    3. American History to 1865 by R. J. Rushdoony. 1,080 minutes on 37 discs.  There is some cosmetic damage, but the CD’s themselves are in perfect condition.  Regular price $150. Will sell for $75. SOLD
    4. Glenbrook Valley Train Set.  Like this one. There are a couple of empty spots in the styrofoam, but we looked carefully at the list of contents and it looks like everything is included.  We think you should take a chance on it – this could be a great deal!  manufacturer’s suggested retail price: $340.  Will sell for $70.
    5. Casey Jones Train Set. The box has a little shelf wear, but the electric train set is new. Regular price $150. Will sell for $80.
    6. Self Storing Fully Furnished Dollhouse. The box is a little worn but the dollhouse itself is new. Regular price $139.  Will sell for $80.  SOLD

    Shipping on books is $3 for the first and $1.50 for each additional.  Shipping is included on other items.  Please check our For Sale page for other new stuff from me and my sisters at very good prices.

    I experienced an emotional rollercoaster, and you can too.

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    This might make your blood boil, but Tim will make it better.

    the Budget, and where my Chocolate falls therein

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    Now that our 7 year stupid tax has come to an end, we’re putting our collective shoulder to the plow.  Is that the right phrase?  At any rate, we have embarked upon a new budget to help us pay off our remaining debts as quickly as possible.

    It’s been many years since we had a formal budget.  Generally, our budget plans have looked like this:

    1. Pay bills.
    2. Buy food.
    3. Strive to resist unnecessary purchases.
    4. Oops.

    Now, our plan is a bit more detailed.  We get paid on the 15th and 30th of each month.  I’m leaving out most of the numbers out for the sake of privacy, but our budget looks like this:

    15th
    • tithes – automatically deducted off the top.
    • cash – groceries, plus a modest amount of spending money for Perry and me.
    • gas - The plan is to put $60 in the tank every Friday.  This gets us to town once for groceries and once for church, with a bit left over for unplanned trips.  Hubby currently carpools with brother-in-law, so the cost of his lengthy daily commute is relatively small.
    • cell phones – we keep 3 on a family plan: one each for me and hubby, and one for the kids when we leave them alone to babysit.  Our contract is up for renewal, but we’re toying with the idea of continuing on a month-to-month basis for maximum flexibility.
    • Netflix – we have the $8.99/month membership.
    • Samaritan Ministries – our alternative to health insurance.  We also have dental insurance through Vision Forum for $80/month but this comes out before we ever see it, so it’s not included in the budget.
    Any funds left over from this paycheck go toward irregular expenses (van repairs, dental bills, etc), emergency fund, & extra payments on debts.
    30th
    • tithes – same as above.
    • cash – same as above.
    • gas – same as above.
    • house payment
    • short-sale balance – 18 month unsecured loan.  We hope to pay this off sooner.
    • insurance – home, auto, life
    • electric – with no a/c or dryer, our bill has been very manageable this year!
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    • We have a well, so there’s no water bill.
    • Our house is all electric, so we have no propane or gas bill.
    • We burn our trash, so no trash bill.
    • Our internet access generates some income, so we have the cost deducted from Paypal.

    Obviously this will be tweaked and changed as the need arises, but it’s a plan.  Already, we’ve gone over budget on gas.  Hubby thinks we need to budget more for gas.  I think we just had a few high-usage weeks in a row.  At any rate, my orderly mind loves having a real plan, and hubby thrives on this as well.  We are opposites in many ways and that’s often a good thing, but this is one area in which we are alike.  That’s a good thing, too.

    With a plan, we are forced to stop and ask ourselves before every single expense: “Where does this money come from?  How do I categorize this?”   Sometimes this is tricky:   Does a shiny new kitchen gadget come from my spending money or the grocery budget?  I think it depends on how badly I need it, and whether others in the house will use it too.

    Other items are easier:  a fountain drink comes from spending money.  So do books.   My personal chocolate stash will come out of my spending money, though some might contend that it’s a necessity and deserves a category of its own.  Hubby might even feel motivated to use some of his spending money for my chocolate under certain circumstances.  Ahem.

    Our grocery budget includes all household incidentals:  paper products, school supplies, pet food, minor auto maintenance, clothes, and charity.   My last grocery trip included lots of edibles plus a bra, a box fan, chicken food, dog food, ant bait, silverware, etc.  My rule of thumb is if I can get it at WalMart, it’s groceries. Yes, I extend this to include chicken feed, which I technically can’t get at WalMart, but you get the idea. Yes, I could also extend this to include chocolate, but I need the discipline imposed by my personal spending limit.

    There are a few things about this new plan that just tickle me.

    • Our new birthday/Christmas fund is Swagbucks.  We will either purchase from Amazon with gift certificates earned from Swagbucks, or try to sell the codes for $5 gift certificates at a slight discount.
    • Perry and I each have our own modest monthly allowances.  This means that I can spend without ovarian guilt, something that is often difficult for me.  I can stop for a dollar burger on shopping day if I choose without feeling like I really should have eaten before I left the house.  I can add fries to that order.  Not every time, mind you, but sometimes.
    • Now when I buy chocolate with my “allowance,” it’s really mine.  I can hide and eat it without guilt.  I will share, but it will be because I’m nice.
    • And when Perry and I are out together, he can gallantly pay the bill out of his very own money.  I know, because he’s done it already.  :)   I could do it for him, too.  That part is only theoretical because…well…I haven’t done it yet…but maybe I’ll bring him a big fountain drink the next time I’m out getting groceries.

    Is it just me, or is there something exciting about embarking on a new budget?  I can’t wait to pay bills, balance the checkbook, or pull a bit of cash out of the Food Envelope.

    There’s something strangely satisfying about making a plan and seeing it unfold just as you designed it.  There’s even something satisfying about revising a plan when things don’t quite the way you expected.  I can’t quite explain it, but it makes me feel creative and responsible and capable.  What can I say?  Math is fun.

    What do you think?  Does that make sense, or should this post go under the Mom Is Neurotic category?

    Tell me something funny

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    We laugh a lot around our house and I wanted to share a quick funny story, but strangely enough I can’t think of one.  This is not normal.  We need help!

    Tell me something funny that has happened in your house lately.  What did your kids do that had you doubled over laughing?  What did they do that made you choke on your own tongue because you didn’t want them to see you laugh?  What did you or your husband do that made the kids go crazy with laughter?

    The Headmistress always makes me angry

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    I love The Common Room blog, but I always come away steaming mad.  Being informed on political matters often has that effect, it seems.

    I don’t tend to keep up with politics unless an issue hits me in the head or the gut.  There are certain advantages to keeping one’s head in the sand.

    Crazylegs for Becca

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    Posted by: Deanna

    Becca is the original Crazylegs in our family. It was she who opened my eyes to the wonders of wearing multicolored stripes on my legs, and it was she who taught me not to give a darn whether or not my socks match my clothes.

    Alas though, her crazylegs rainbow tights wore out long ago, and she has been forced to wear (gasp!) normal socks. (A more horrifying fate could not happen to a girl who has crazylegs in her blood.) We recently discovered a source of crazyleg socks, and poor Becca has been gazing longingly over shoulders at the tantalizing array of colors…

    So, I decided that this problem should be remedied, and when Becca went out shopping with mom, what should she find waiting at the post office but…

    RAINBOW TOESOCKS!

    LONG LIVE CRAZYLEGS!!!

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    Now Becca can match her big sisters who are already having way too much fun with their new crazylegs.

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    Happy Birthday to Becca

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    Our #6 girl is 8 now, and she celebrated by going to work with her dad.  For her much-anticipated birthday lunch, he treated her to The Incredible Pizza Company.  I have yet to be debriefed, but I’ve been there before.  I’m sure it was, well, Incredible.

    While Becca was gone, her sisters showed their love by decorating the house with streamers and the traditional birthday banner.

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    They made some pretty impressive birthday cards and wrapped gifts for their sister.

    Becca is easy to please, and she knew just what she wanted from her dad and me.  Now that she has begun cooking in earnest, she wants her own set of recipe cards.   We store them in binders instead of recipe boxes to make them easier to flip through.

    I found a nice photo album at WalMart preloaded with plenty of pages.  I like the kind that have sleeves to hold photos.  We just slide the recipe cards into the sleeve.

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    I started her off with 12 simple recipes, most of which she has made in the past.  I included a few new ones that I think she is ready to try, and some blank cards for me to add new recipes as she requests.  She can also cut recipes out of magazines to add to her collection.

    We had a little fun adding some flair to her personal cookbook.  We used  Natalie’s Klutz book for lettering ideas.

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    We’re not spectacularly crafty people, but we think it was a fun and easy gift that Becca will love for a long time to come!

    Poll: late walkers

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    The poll on early walkers was fun and we learned a lot.  Thanks to everyone who took time to participate!

    I have a friend who thinks her boy is a sure winner when it comes to late walkers, so here’s a new poll for you.  Since developmental delays often contribute to late walking, please answer based on your latest non-developmentally delayed child.

    What was the age of your latest walker?

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    Our latest was 15 months.  I thought it was pretty unusual at the time, but I was fresh out of my parents’ house where babies walked at 7 months.  Now I know that things work a little differently, so don’t be afraid of shocking me.  I can take it.  Anyway, I still think my friend’s son can totally beat yours in this poll.

    If you’re feeling self-conscious for the sake of your child, take heart.  Research indicates that children who crawl longer tend to do better in math, spelling, and spatial skills.

    Diapers

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    just a quick tip to let you know that I’ve been posting a bit more at my other blog.  Go put in your 2 cents’ worth – I’d love to know what you think.

    Cloth diapers: why I shunned them for 15 years. Why we switched.

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