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Holiday snackage

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

A few weeks ago, I decided to make our Sundays more special by adding some flair to our evening snacks.  Maybe I was influenced by the upcoming holidays.  Who doesn’t spend November and December thinking about food?

When the kids were little, we used to have Sunday sundaes.  Ice cream was our dinner every Sunday night during warm weather.  It was a fun tradition, and I stayed free of ovarian guilt by offering bananas, nuts, and other nutritious toppings.

Now we’re all a bit older and we recognize that foods don’t have to be sweet to be delicious.  We always have a big fellowship meal at church, so the evening meal doesn’t need to be heavy or formal.  Snacks are what we do.  We love sausage balls and I think we could happily eat them every week, but we want to experiment with new and different foods, and more interesting ways to present the usual snacks.  My goal is to use presentation and novelty to make our snacks more exciting without breaking the budget.  I think a modest splurge here and there with a side of creativity and a willingness to work can make a fancy feast that is still relatively frugal.

Old fashioned popcorn made on the stove top and drizzled with butter was fun and yummy, but I wanted to step it up a little.

Three Sundays ago I tried my hand at bruschetta, and it was a big hit.  It’s cheap, easy, and delicious, and it looks very pretty on a big white platter.  I made some of Smockity’s artisan style bread because I already had the dough in my fridge.  I shaped it like baguettes, then topped it with a combination of fresh tomatoes and pesto.  I don’t know just how authentic it is, but we topped some with sliced green olives (ugh!) and various cheeses.  We also tried broiling some after adding the toppings.

The following week, we tried some baked brie in a homemade sourdough bread bowl with pear filling, but that was not a big hit.  Nearly everyone decided they just didn’t care for the yeasty flavor of the brie.  I bought it at Costco and used it very promptly, but I’m slightly suspicious that our Brie was past its prime.  So many cheeses are stinky to begin with, it’s hard to tell a good stink from a bad stink when you’re not familiar with a particular variety of cheese.  The fact that the remainder of the Brie wheel had pink and purple areas after just 7 days made me even more suspicious.

Last Sunday our church didn’t have the usual fellowship meal so our snacks at home were heartier than usual.  We all worked together on a huge platter with 3 different types of sausage slices, smoked gouda, swiss (my favorite), pepper jack and sharp cheddar cheese, and 4 types of crackers.  On the side we had baby dills, black olives, and bruschetta.  There was wine and hot spiced apple cider to drink.  It was glorious!

I think I’d like to try some sort of savory mini tarts – maybe little quiches since the big ones always go over well with the kids.  Homemade, of course.  And maybe we’ll serve up some shrimp cocktail.  A $5 ring of shrimp will feed a big family when you point out to the children just how much shrimp resemble huge bugs.  Just to reinforce the point, try to get into the habit of calling them Sea Cockroaches.

What fancy snacks have you tried?  What’s on your list to try someday?

Christmas tree decisions

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

It’s official, at least in our house.  Thanksgiving has passed, and the Christmas music marathon has begun.

Among other things, we’re debating what sort of Christmas tree to have this year.  Yes, we usually have a tree.

When we lived in Ohio, we nearly always did the traditional pilgrimage through the bitter cold and snow at the local Christmas tree farm, with a borrowed bowsaw in hand and all the little ones frolicking around.  We would cut down the biggest, fattest, heaviest tree in the farthest corner of the tree farm, then drag it 1/2 mile back to the car while the cold wet whimpering kids lagged behind.  Then we would dig the car out of the snow, drive home at 15 mph, and try in vain to cram the tree through the front door without breaking or cutting off half the branches.

Ah, memories.

While there is some sort of Christmas tree farm near us now, I’m not sure what we would find there besides much nicer weather.  I’ve seen the trees that grow around here, and it’s not pretty – although we’d probably have absolutely NO trouble fitting them through the door.  We could fit most of the trees here through the door in the little plastic playhouse on the front deck.

A part of us cries out for the real tree.  That part is mostly the part under the age of 18, but I have to admit that I love the smell of a real tree, and anything else feels just a little bit like a cop-out.  There’s something nostalgic about real trees – even more so when you cut your own.  I don’t think less of others who opt for artificial trees, but I do think less of the phony trees themselves.  I have spent so many years loudly proclaiming my disdain for artificial trees that it’s humbling to even admit I’m tempted.

But tempted, I am.  We are.  Artificial trees have come a long way, and they don’t look nearly as bad as the ones I always made faces about.  I could almost tolerate a nice one with lights built in.  Just think how easy it would be.  Just a trip to the shed, and a quick easy setup.  No staring at 500 trees trying to figure out which bare spots will work with our furnishings and ornaments.  No long, slow drive home, hoping it’s still on top of the van when we get there.  No struggle up the steps, no searching for a saw to cut an inch off the bottom, no search for the tree stand that always ends up being too small or missing a piece anyway.  No worries about watering, and dropped needles, and fire hazards, and disposal.  Instead of an all day affair, The Tree would be 30 minutes of happy family time followed by snacks.

See how happy we would be?

The initial investment for a nicer artificial tree is much higher than the price of a nice big cut tree, but it would pay off over time – if we didn’t change our minds and decide we hated it after the first year.  We could buy a cheaper one as a trial the first year, then upgrade next year, but what if the cheap one convinces us that we hate artificial trees when we might have actually liked a more expensive one?

See how difficult this decision is?

More than one year, we have skipped the tree altogether.  This made me very happy, but it also made me feel like Scrooge every time I chuckled with glee at the absence of pine needles on my floor.  My joy came at the expense of others.  Never mind.

I’ve always wanted a live, potted tree that would spend most of December out on the deck.  Then it would join us indoors for a few days right around Christmas, and we would plant it somewhere in the yard where it could spend years growing into a real tree with deep meaning for our family.  Its brothers would join it year by year, and someday we would have an entire row of majestic trees in varying sizes from Christmases past, each reminding us of the joys of being a family.

Isn’t it beautiful?

The only problem with this scenario is that we would never remember to water the newly planted trees, and they would each die a long, slow death before being joined by a brother.  Our row of memories would be death row.

Not such a pretty thought after all.

When we were first building our house and the walls were just bare drywall, we used floor enamel to paint a big shiny green tree on the wall.  We used pushpins to hang all of our regular ornaments right on the wall.  Even garland was strung from side to side.  It was fun and quirky, and we thought it was very pretty, though the old cellphone snapshot didn’t do it justice.

This year, in addition to the options already mentioned, we’re considering another fun and quirky alternative.  Let’s keep it a surprise until we decide whether to use the idea.

If you do Christmas trees, what sort do you usually do?  Why?

Did you enter our huge Vision Forum giveaway yet?  Just think how much Christmas shopping you could do with those gift certificates!  Please consider blogging about the giveaway – I would love to have as many entries as possible to encourage them to do more giveaways in the future!

Giveaway: Cansolidator cabinet organizer from Shelf Reliance

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

This giveaway has ended.  The winner was Emmy W.

I’ve posted in the past about my system for organizing the canned goods in my cabinets, but I have to admit that the more I try to store the less my system works.  Did you hear the squeal all the way over at your house when my Cansolidator arrived by FedEx yesterday?  I was so excited to get my cabinets organized in a way that will actually stay organized!  No more digging to the back of the cabinet to see if we can find a lost and forgotten can of green chiles, tuna or sweetened condensed milk.

Cansolidator Pantry Plus

After pulling out one can each of our most commonly used canned goods – this showed us the sizes of the spaces we needed to create – we assembled the unit.  It sounds hard when I say it that way, but I love this bit of a customer review from the website:

…If you can put legos together you can build this rack. If not give it to your 6 year old and have him build it for you…

I did make one or two mistakes along the way, but those were because I was having too much fun deciding what will go in each slot rather than reading the instructions.  [Instructions?  Who needs instructions?]  Anyway, mistakes were easily fixed.  The whole operation took about 4 minutes and no tools at all.

Emptying the cabinet and getting everything put back the way I wanted took a little longer.  While we worked, we kept up our strength with yummy freeze-dried strawberries, bananas, and pineapples.  I’ve never had such willing workers in all my life!

I wish I had taken before and after pics, but we were too excited to wait for the camera!  As soon as I said the word, 3 kids dove headfirst into the cabinet scooping out all the canned goods they found in the depths.  Do you know I had pumpkin pie filling, pickled beets, Wolf brand chili, and canned mackerel in my cabinet?  Well, now you do.  I just told you.

The Cansolidator Pantry Plus (and a ton of other items) are on sale this weekend in the Shelf Reliance Black Friday sale.

As you might have noticed from the flyer, Shelf Reliance sells a lot more than cabinet organizers.  They specialize in reasonably priced storage foods to help your family be prepared for emergencies.  They also offer a lot of other products related to the subject to help you plan for all your family’s needs should things change dramatically.

ENTER THE GIVEAWAY!

One winner will receive a free Cansolidator Pantry Plus organizer!

To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.

  1. Look around the Thrive site and leave a comment on this post telling which product is your favorite.  You must do this to enter the giveaway. If you place an order, let us know what you chose!  To give credit to the consultant who is sponsoring this giveaway, please make sure Heather Horton’s name shows in the upper right.  If not, click the X to reset the site, then enter again through Heather’s link.  Thank you!
  2. If you already own any Thrive products or have made other emergency preparations, leave another comment and tell us about it.
  3. Like Life  in a Shoe on Facebook.
  4. Share this giveaway on Facebook.  There’s a button below to make it easy.
  5. Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter to be automatically entered in every giveaway.  No need to leave a comment for this one!  Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
  6. For 3 bonus entries, blog about this giveaway. Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

We will take entries until Friday, December 9, then choose a random winner!

Don’t forget to enter Life in a Shoe’s other giveaways today!

 

Giveaway: Flexi Clips from Lilla Rose

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

This giveaway has ended.  The winners are Vikki and Melissa.

Our next giveaway in the Life in a Shoe Black Friday event (see? I didn’t plan it, but I recognize what is happening) is for some lovely, beautiful, cute & comfy, super durable, can’t get enough – can you tell how much we love these? – Flexi Clips!

We have acquired a fair collection of Flexi’s so far but always look forward to adding more.  They work in literally anyone’s hair, from baby fine to mega-thick, stick-straight to crazy-curly.  They are so pretty, so unique, and so easy to use, and we’ve never yet managed to damage one.  That’s saying a lot.

There’s also an unbelievable variety to choose from.  I haven’t counted, but I think they must number in the hundreds!

We also had the opportunity to try out You-Pins by Lilla Rose, and they are a fresh, pretty alternative.  They work particularly well in Lydia’s super-thick hip length hair, giving her a bun that stays put even when she is being…well, her crazy hyper self.  There’s a reason that girl stays so slim, and the word sedentary is not part of it.

Guess what?  Lilla Rose is celebrating the holidays with a Cyber Black Friday with Saturday thrown in! EVERYTHING on the website will be 15% off starting midnight on Thursday, November 24th running until midnight Saturday, November 26th. It doesn’t end there… A few select items will 25% off!

ENTER THE GIVEAWAY – 2 winners!

Two winners will each receive a free Flexi Clip (value up to $15), plus a gift certificate for another, either to keep or to put in a loved one’s Christmas stocking.  Tough choice, I know.

To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.

  1. Look around the Lilla Rose site and leave a comment on this post telling which clip is your favorite.  If you place an order, let us know what you chose!
  2. If you already own a Flexi Clip, leave another comment telling how much you love it and why.
  3. Like Life  in a Shoe on Facebook.
  4. Share this giveaway on Facebook.  There’s a button below to make it easy.
  5. Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter to be automatically entered in every giveaway.  No need to leave a comment for this one!  Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
  6. For 3 bonus entries, blog about this giveaway. Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

We will take entries until Friday, December 9, then choose a random winner!

Don’t forget to enter Life in a Shoe’s other giveaways today!

 

HUGE Vision Forum giveaway: $600 in gift certificates! (plus $3,000 more)

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

This giveaway has ended.  The winners in ascending order were ~in Not of~LisaAnn, and Mary Minship, who won a $300 gift certificate for blogging about the giveaway.

I don’t get into the whole Black Friday thing, and maybe you don’t either.  Maybe you’re at home instead of out fighting the crazy crowds.  Maybe you’re here reading my blog.  Here’s your reward:

Vision Forum is offering a $100, $200 and $300 gift certificates to 3 Life in a Shoe readers!  Want to pump up your chance of winning?  Enter giveaways for the same amazing gifts at 5 other blogs:

For those who aren’t familiar with Vision Forum, they offer a wide array of books, CDs, DVDs and toys for the Christian family.  They just sent out their new 2012 catalog, so there’s a whole new spectrum of possibilities for your wish list.  What has caught your eye so far?  Here are some of our older favorites from Vision Forum, but I need to add some new recommendations.

I said that aloud and the suggestions came in from people reading over my shoulder.

First, they said this:

High-Impact Roman Short Sword

High-Impact Roman Short Sword

$32.00 (Save $3.00)

But I think they really meant this, because what fun is a single sword?

Does anyone thinks it’s strange that in a house full of girls, swords are at the top of the list?  You might also be surprised to learn that we have some huge fans of airsoft guns too.  I’m even considering joining their ranks, just so I won’t be the odd one out.
Taurus Airsoft Handgun

Taurus Airsoft Handgun

$40.00 (Save 20%)

Rubber Ammo Eight-Shooter

Rubber Ammo Eight-Shooter

$13.00 (Save $2.00)

Rubber Ammo Sportsman Shotgun

Rubber Ammo Sportsman Shotgun

$30.00 (Save $5.00)

Don’t worry.  Weapons are not the only toys in our house.  Some of the girls still like dolls.  Exciting news: In browsing the site, I just noticed that dolls are back!

OK, unlike the impression you might have so far, VF is not only about toys.  Christian books and media is where they really shine: family-friendly DVDs, audio messages about history, audiobooks, materials for homeschooling from a Christian perspective, and more!

Vision Forum also has some fun sales running right now!  Hurry because they end soon!

Free shipping code: NOSHIPPING good on $25 or more
exp. 11/2

THE GIVEAWAY

Vision Forum has agreed to give away a $100 and $200 gift certificate to 2 happy winners, plus a $300 gift certificate exclusively to one random reader who blogs about this giveaway!

To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.  If you are already subscribed to our newsletter, you are automatically entered once! Remember you must blog about this giveaway to qualify for the $300 gift certificate.

  1. Leave a comment on this post telling what’s on your Vision Forum wishlist.  You must do this.
  2. Like Vision Forum on Facebook
  3. Like Life in a Shoe on Facebook
  4. Share this giveaway on Facebook.  There is a button below the post to make it easy for you.
  5. Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter to be automatically entered in every giveaway.  No need to leave a comment for this one!  Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
  6. For 3 bonus entries plus an entry to win the $300 gift certificate, blog about this giveaway.  You must include a link to this post and the phrase, Christian books (must be linked to Vision Forum). Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

We will take entries until Friday, December 9, then choose a random winner!

Don’t forget to enter Life in a Shoe’s other giveaways today!

 

Giveaway: Nursing Cover from Modest Mom

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

This giveaway has ended.  The winner was Karen E, a subscriber to our newsletter.

This week, we have several giveaways.  I’ve always said I don’t care about Black Friday, but maybe that’s not entirely true.  It seems I have a sort of Black Friday going on right here on my blog.

Our first giveaway this week is for a free nursing cover from The Modest Mom Shop.

Nursing Cover

Features:

Our wide selection of prints and colors means there is a perfect Modest Mom Nursing Cover for every you!

  • All nursing covers have adjustable Velcro neck straps.
  • All nursing covers feature our open-neck design, which allows you to maintain eye contact with your little one, keep an eye on baby during latch-on and throughout breastfeeding, and keep baby cool at the same time.
  • All nursing covers are made with 100% cotton fabric.
  • Cotton nursing covers make great blankets and lightweight covers for strollers and baby car seats.
  • The size of the Modest Mom Nursing Cover is approximately 25″ wide by 35″ long.

 

Customer review:

This is the most awesome nursing cover. I’ve been looking for something
like this since I had my first baby 14 years ago. Now baby #5 is nursing
in style and privacy. Can’t say enough good things about this cover. It
washes well – no shrinking, no wrinkles, bone maintains its shape, no
fading or pilling. Folds up nicely.  LOVE this cover. Give “The Modest Mom
some of your business if you need a cover or will be attending a baby
shower anytime soon! -Kristy

Scroll down for details on entering the giveaway but first, The Modest Mom is having her first ever Cyber Monday sale!

cyber monday

Every item in the store will be 10-30% off, plus you’ll earn free gifts when you order!  Click the banner above for details.

Wondering what to buy?  Here’s one idea for you…

Nantucket Denim Skirt review by 15yo Lydia

I choose this skirt because the only other dark-wash denim skirt I have is ankle length. Don’t get me wrong: I love long skirts, but sometimes they aren’t very convenient. I like sitting cross-legged a lot, but I can’t in very many of my skirts because they are either too narrow or too short.

This one is nice and wide.  It’s wide enough to let me spin in circles and long enough that it comes down below my knees while I sit.

It’s also a good length to wear with my cowboy boots, which I wear all the time, and the brass buttons and pointed yoke are super cute!

It’s also very easy to dress up, it will look great with one of my favorite polka dot shirts and black heels next sunday!

This is one of my new favorite skirts, I have worn it 4 times since I got it on the 17th and I would have worn it more but I spilled something on it and it had to go through the washer… :/

 

THE GIVEAWAY

The Modest Mom to one random winner!  Not currently nursing?  This would make a beautiful gift for a mother you know!

To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.  If you are already subscribed to our newsletter, you are automatically entered once!

  1. Leave a comment on this post telling your favorite item from The Modest Mom shop or your favorite fabric choice for the  nursing cover.
  2. Like The Modest Mom on Facebook
  3. Subscribe to The Modest Mom blog
  4. Like Life in a Shoe on Facebook
  5. Share this giveaway on Facebook.  There is a button below the post to make it easy for you.
  6. Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter to be automatically entered in every giveaway.  No need to leave a comment for this one!  Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
  7. For 3 bonus entries, blog about this giveaway.  You must include a link to both this post and to The Modest Mom. Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

We will take entries until Friday, December 9, then choose a random winner!

Don’t forget to enter Life in a Shoe’s other giveaways today!

4 Moms: A roundup of thankful posts from the past

No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

I know I said this week’s 4 Moms post was going to be a Q&A, but didn’t you suspect we had better things to do than blog this Thursday?  We have changed up the scheduled topics for the next month to more closely align with what is going on in our households (and probably in your household too).  We hope you’ll appreciate the changes; we sure do.

For today, if you really want to sit there at the computer instead of eating more spending quality time with your family, let me just point you toward a few of my past Thankful posts.  Many of these are about crises in one form or another.  Isn’t it funny how the difficult times often teach us more about thankfulness than the easy ones?  But maybe it’s not so odd after all when you think about the first Thanksgiving here in America.

Pumpkin gingerbread trifles in a jar

  • I am thankful for… – A photo of the big whiteboard in our dining room, where last week the kids jotted down a myriad of things for which they are thankful.
  • Thanksgiving preparations – A preview of our Thanksgiving plans and prep for 2011, including photos of my Pumpkin Gingerbread Trifle.  The girls think the little trifles I put in wide-mouth pint jars would be sweet gifts for a couple.
  • Big family photos; and family comes to my rescue once again – Huge family photos and memories from January 2010, when Dad’s cancer was newly discovered and he still looked hale and hearty.  Dad came to our rescue that night when the van broke down late at night 80 miles from home and Perry was out of the state.  This will be our first Thanksgiving without him.
  • Rejoice with us! – The biggest loss we ever took on a sale, and we were happy about it.
  • Lessons learned the hard way, in which we experience an automobile/financial crisis and God provides.
  • Our crisis, in which we experience another automobile/financial crisis and God provides in an entirely different way.
  • Did I say these posts were about being thankful?  Then it goes without saying that I should include the story of how Perry and I met way back when we were 12, and my children’s birth stories.

See what the other 3 Thankful Ladies have to say for themselves this week:

  • Smockity Frocks,
  • Raising Olives, and
  • Common Room

  • Upcoming topics for 4 Moms:

    • revised, and I’m too lazy busy tired to update this list

    Recent topics:

    About 4 Moms, including a complete list of all past topics

     

     

    HUGE Vision Forum giveaways!

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    Shame on me.  I’ve been holding out on you.  I didn’t tell you yet about the HUGE Vision Forum giveaways currently running.

    Would you believe there are currently a total of $2,400 in gift certificates being given away on 4 different blogs?  HURRY!

    Giveaway hosts are:

    Tip #1: In addition to other gift certificates, each blog is giving away a $300 gift certificate exclusively for bloggers who blog about the giveaway, so be ready to post about one or more of the giveaways!

    Tip #2: Watch for 2 more of these huge giveaways to pop up on the web very soon.  I’ll bet you can guess where you’ll find one of them.

    Thanksgiving preparations

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    Tomorrow we join the extended family at my mom’s house – 13 of my 14 siblings will be there with their spouses and 16 children, plus 11 people from our own household (Deanna is in Tennessee with her other grandparents).  Cooking will be simple since there are so many hands and households to share the labor.

    There is so much to be thankful for, but right now my mind is mostly on the food for tomorrow.  Part of me feels a twinge of guilt as though I were falling prey to our culture’s penchant for materialism, but another part of me is eager to disagree.  Food is a wonderful and fitting sign of God’s provision, and it seems right that a day of thanks should have a heavy emphasis on food.  Food is also a big part of how we commune with God during worship every Sunday, so why shouldn’t it be a holy part of this Thursday celebration as well?

    And so we plan the day largely around what we’ll eat, thinking thankful thoughts with each bite and voicing those thoughts between bites.

    Our group has decided to plan for leftovers, so there will be 2 large turkeys and 2 hams.  Our family will be bringing one of the turkeys.  We want to spend most of the day together, so I’ll brown my turkey at home in a very hot oven then transfer to my electric roaster so it can finish cooking in an out-of-the-way corner at Mom’s house while we visit tomorrow.

    We’re also bringing homemade whole-berry cranberry sauce, which we discovered a few years ago.  So easy and yummy, we’ll never go back to the gel-in-a-can.  I love that the youngest cooks in our house can make it by themselves and know that they contributed to Thanksgiving dinner!

    homemade cranberry sauce

    I would love to try The Pioneer Woman’s mashed potatoes, but my sister beat me to the potatoes this year.  Maybe next year.

    Mom is making plenty of pies, so I’m trying two desserts that are new to us this year: Tres Leches Cake, a traditional Mexican cake which I hear about all the time and finally tasted for the first time last month, and Pumpkin Gingerbread Trifle, made with the pumpkin we canned last year.  The photos of the trifle in the linked post are so beautiful I seriously contemplated stealing one (with a link and credit, of course), but my conscience won out.  If mine turns out half as beautiful, I’ll be updating this post with a photo. (Scroll down to see photo added later)

    Both cakes are cooling on my stovetop now, waiting for final assembly.

    I guess they call it Tres Leches (3 milks) because it has a nicer assonance, but does anyone think quatro leches would be more accurate?

    Tres Leches cake

    A little later today, we’ll head out for our church’s Thanksgiving Eve service.  Not sure how we’ll end the evening, but it’s sure to be fun.  Maybe you have a suggestion?

    Do you have any Thanksgiving Eve traditions?

    Update: my pumpkin gingerbread trifle is done.  It was so fun and easy!  My big dish couldn’t hold 3 complete layers so I put the extra in pint jars.  This is perfect because now I can garnish the big one with candied pecans without risking the life of my nut-allergic sister.  We’ll just hand her a jar.

    Call me partial, but there’s something about my trifle that I think is far more beautiful than the photos in the original recipe.  :)

    I can drive!

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    Posted by: Kittykait

    Last week I got my Learners Permit!  I was a little nervous about the test but it was all multiple choice questions, easy!

    As it turns out the part I should have been nervous about was the picture. I think they need to change the order of things and do the vision test *after* they take your picture to make sure your not permanently blind.  If you watch everyone in the room jumps and blinks when the flash goes off.  I thought I was struck by lighting for Pete’s sake!

    Anyhoo since then my eyesight has recovered and I’ve driven Dad (most of the way) to work 3 times and on Sunday we had an extra car in town so I drove Mom all the way home from church all in our Kia, which is a manual. Manual is generally thought of as really hard but I had a good teacher (my dad) so I think it’s fun.  I’m not perfect at it but I was feeling really proud of myself Sunday because I had to start and stop on a few hills (for the first time) and I didn’t even come close to killing anyone! :)

    Right now we have 3 working vehicles, the great white whale, the Mustang and our little Kia. I haven’t driven the van yet which, for now, is fine with me.  I drove the Mustang half way home one time and even though it’s automatic (and super cool) for now I prefer the Kia because the nose is shorter and the windows are bigger so I don’t have to be too nervous about what I can’t see.

    I think the dumbest thing I’ve done while driving was right after a light turned green, I shifted into first, to start, then I gave the car some gas. But the car didn’t move so I gave it more gas… still nothing, I was getting kind of frantic then I realized I must be in third. Nope. I was pumping on the the brake not the gas. That made me feel really intelligent. I didn’t even mind when Natalie and Becca waived and pointed to the “Student Driver” sign from the back seat.

    Mom and I were wondering together how many people know how to drive manual.  Mom thought probably less know than don’t.  So shouldn’t automatics be called standards?

    Let’s see:

    Can you drive manual?

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    Remember months ago when I said I would do a weekly poll? I did warn you that I would forget!

    100 Free Christmas postcards and 9 other free personalized photo gifts

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    10 free gifts from VistaprintOK, so they’re not totally free.  Vistaprint would go broke if they covered the shipping on all the freebies they’re offering now, but even when you have to pay shipping these are GREAT deals!

    Here’s what you can get:

    • FREE Holiday Postcards (Qty. 100)
      Get your message across this holiday season with customizable postcards! Use them as holiday cards, invitations or announcements for home and business use. Mailing services available. Matching envelopes available at checkout. Create today and receive in as few as 3 days. Printing is free, shipping starts at $7.
    • FREE Business Cards (Qty. 250)
      Choose from 45 templates printed in full color on premium 80 lb card stock. Select a design template and personalize it to best suit your needs. Easily add your own logo or photo. Business cards can be used mommy contact cards, personal contact cards, networking cards, appointment reminder cards, loyalty cards, tiny greeting cards, referral cards, raffle tickets, place cards & much more. Upgrade to premium business cards and save 50%. Printing is free, shipping starts at $5.67.
    • FREE Photo Holiday Cards (Qty. 10)
      Choose from flat or folded holiday cards with Free Envelopes. Order today, and save 50% off higher quantities. Products are free, shipping starts at $4.60.
    • FREE Photo Calendars (Qty. 1)
      Impress family, friends or customers with customizable photo wall calendars this Holiday Season. Select from Wall or Desk calendar and hundreds of templates to suit your style. Choose icons, add captions and highlight important dates. Upload your photos from Facebook, Flickr or Picasa. Calendars make perfect holiday gifts! Create today and receive in as few as 3 days. Bonus: Order today and save 50% off higher quantities. Printing is free, shipping starts at $5.67.
    • FREE Holiday Labels (Qty. 140)
      Spread the cheer with every letter you send! Stick your labels on festive holiday letters, cards and packages. Choose from thousands of designs, upload photos or create caricature return address labels. Create up to 7 caricatures of your family, friends and pets! Use labels as To-From stickers, gift tags & more! Printing is free, shipping & processing starts at $3.07.
    • FREE Mug (Qty. 1)
      Serve up some fun with a 11-oz full color ceramic mug. Choose from a variety of designs and personalize with your text. Have fun creating a gift to warm hearts this holiday season! Printing is free, shipping & processing starts at $6.06.
    • FREE Holiday Stamp (Qty. 1)
      Choose from over a dozen designs and make holiday labeling a tad easier this year. Choose from red, black or blue ink. Printing is free, shipping & processing starts at $5.67.
    • FREE Tote Bag (Qty. 1)
      Perfect for everyday use, these 100% canvas tote bags can be customized with your name and message. Choose from 24 designs. Printing is free, shipping & processing starts at $4.41.


    Monday Movies: Perry Boy loses his first tooth

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    Last week Kaitlyn noticed that Perry’s first adult tooth was coming in behind his baby tooth.  This happened to me and a lot of my siblings, so I feel blessed that most of our children so far have their father’s perfect teeth instead of my very crowded, cavity-prone teeth.

    Nonetheless, we had to do something about Perry’s tooth.

    I explained to him what was happening and that he would need to give his baby tooth a lot of help, wiggling it until it fell out.

    His sister Megan presented an alternative plan that would take less time and less work. She told him to use a string to tie his tooth to the door, then slam the door. Megan did this 3 times and assured him it wouldn’t hurt. In fact the first time she did it, she didn’t even realize it had worked!

    Perry was a little reluctant, but he also wasn’t excited about all the work involved in loosening his tooth manually or about having the dentist pull it, so he resolved to give the door method a try.

    This morning, he used a piece of upholstery thread and tied his tooth to the front door.  Then he stood there with the door wide opening, gathering his courage.

    He pushed the door, and in slow motion it swung closed.  No go.

    He stood there with the string on his tooth, stalling and chatting, negotiating for rewards, and finally karate kicked the door.

    NOOOOOOOO!  Parker was standing right in the open doorway!

    Parker went flying out, unlike the tooth.  He was fine – only slightly shaken, but the string had slipped off the door, leaving Perry standing there fully intact.  Strike two.

    But the third time was a charm, and that’s the one we caught on video.  Take a look and congratulate our brave young man.

    Giveaway: New Creation skirt

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    Were you wondering if there would be a giveaway this Friday?  Don’t hold your breath, but there might be two giveaways this week!

    The first is here, now.  A free skirt of your choice from New Creation Apparel, home of the modest long skirt.  In my recent plea for skirt-choosing advice, I chose French Country Blues.

    There are tons of new fall choices now, and lots of clearance as well.  The Liberty Stretch has a soft look and graceful lines.

    Patched and Fringed is cute, pretty, and on sale – and available in my size.

    See?  This is fun.  What will you choose if you win?

    THE GIVEAWAY

    has agreed to give a $50 gift certificate  to one random winner!

    To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.  If you are already subscribed to our newsletter, you are automatically entered once!

    1. Look around New Creation Apparel and leave a comment on this post telling which skirt you might choose if you win.
    2. Like New Creation Apparel on Facebook
    3. Share this giveaway on Facebook.
    4. Subscribe to Life in a Shoe.
    5. Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter mailing list.  No spam, we promise.  We’ve only ever sent one newsletter (how was it?)  Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
    6. For 3 bonus entries, blog about this giveaway. Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

    We will take entries until Friday, November 28, then choose a random winner!

    This giveaway is closed.  The winner, chosen by random.org, is subscriber #196 of our newsletter.

    4 Moms: Vehicles for the large family

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    4 Moms, 35 Kids

    Vehicles for the large or growing family can be tricky.  Seats are not the only consideration; you need room for carseats, groceries, diaper bags, the occasional stroller, etc.  As needs change, the vehicle that served well last year may be entirely unsuitable next year.

    Long ago, we drove a compact hatchback car.  It was perfect for us.  It had room for 3 children (2 of them in carseats), 2 parents, and lot of groceries.  It got 40 miles/gallon, and it was cheap.  We could drive the whole family from Ohio to Texas for $40 in gas.  Life was beautiful.

    Nothing could ever take the place of our beloved Colt. Well, nothing except the nearly identical Colt we bought to replace it.

    Then we learned we were expecting a 4th child, and I panicked.  We needed something bigger!  We bought our first mini-van.  It’s a long and sordid tale, and I have written it all up in 4 drafts.  It ranks right up there with The Great Poop Flood.  How bad do you want to know the story?  We owned that van for about 5 painful months, and never had 3 consecutive starts.

    Maybe it didn't look exactly like this, but that's how it made us feel every single day we owned it.

    We owned another 7-seater for a few years until I was expecting our 6th child and again we were forced to upsize.  This time we chose an older Suburban with a bench seat in the front, giving us a total of 9 seats.  We were good for a few more years.  We didn’t like going down to 17 miles/gallon, but gas was still cheap back then so it wasn’t as painful as it could have been.

    I loved driving a Suburban.  I felt cool in a country sort of way, not like a stereotypical soccer mom.  With a family our size, I was in no danger of fitting that particular stereotype, but I liked looking different as much as I like being different.  I was on top of the world in my big Texas-style truck.  It was comfortable and even though it was old and rusty, it handled like a dream.  It was like driving around on my sofa with a couple of kids sitting next to me.  It’s no longer roadworthy, but that old beast still sits in the circle down the hill, watching us come and go.  Every now and then we air up the tires, jump start it and rumble over the hill to my parents’ old house.  The kids even camp in it once in a while.

    My faithful old beast, retired now.

     

    But years ago, we had to upgrade again.  We were expecting #8 and again we outgrew our big-family vehicle.  What would we drive next?  The 2 obvious options were the 12 passenger van or the 15 passenger van.  We went with the bigger van for several reasons:

    1. Marginal differences in cost. We never buy brand new.  15 passenger vans probably cost a little more new but seem more plentiful on the used market, so prices were very comparable  for us.
    2. Marginal difference in gas mileage. Gas efficiency does vary from year to year and model to model, but depends more on the engine than the body of the van and a 15 passenger van does not typically have a bigger engine than a 12 passenger van.
    3. No cargo space in 12 passenger vans. How would I haul groceries or even a stroller?  If I pulled a bench out of a 12 passenger van to make room for cargo, we would be back down to 8 or 9 seats – not enough for our family.  The 15 doesn’t have cargo space either but we could keep one bench out, giving us lots of cargo space and still plenty of seating.
    4. More room to grow. With a 12 passenger van, we would probably need to upgrade again within a few years.  With a 15, we are good for many years.

    Our decision was made, and Perry found a great deal on a 15 passenger van on Ebay.  Some might think that Ebay is a dangerous way to make a major purchase like this, but we felt it was safer than going to a dealer.  Unless an issue goes all the way to the BBB, it can be hard to gauge customer satisfaction with a local dealer.  However, with a bit of research, it’s easy to find an Ebay dealer with a sparkling reputation, and he’s going to be eager to keep that sparkle.

    The Big One, retired from service in the YMCA to an even harder life hauling our wild crew.

    Next?  If our family continues to grow faster than it shrinks – not something we can freely assume at this stage in life, though it certainly could happen – we might someday want or need something even bigger.  Hubby thinks an airport shuttle would be cool.  With multiple drivers coming of age, we could also plan to go everywhere in more than one vehicle.  Personally, I think nothing will ever fill the void left by my old Suburban.

    The other moms:


    Upcoming topics for 4 Moms:

    • November 24 – Q&A
    • December 1 - Teaching writing (composition)
    • December 8 – Favorite holiday recipes {linky}
    • December 15 - Tithing and saving for retirement/college on one income
    • December 22 – Q&A

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    Mystery Box prayers

    No current giveaway. Shocking, right?

    This isn’t exactly a sales post, though it might sound like one.  I wanted to share Product imagetoday’s Deal Of The Day because it has special meaning to me.

    Today’s deal is…

    …the Vision Forum Mystery Box, a fantastic opportunity to obtain at least $100 worth of great family-building books, toys, movies, audio albums, or any combination of those items, all for one incredibly low price!

    When you open your Mystery Box, you will discover an assortment of Vision Forum products that are sure to surprise and encourage your family. However, we can’t tell you what will be inside your specific box. We don’t know ourselves! The only thing we know about your particular order is that you will receive a combination of products worth at least $100 retail, all for just $30 — a massive 70% discount.

    Here’s why the Mystery Box is special to me: the girls and I assembled most or all of these boxes.  Knowing that a random selection of products won’t always be exactly what a customer is hoping for, I prayed while I worked that God would make the contents of each box particularly appropriate to the recipient.

    If you decide to order one, I would love to hear how He answered this prayer.