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What does a family with 14 children look like?

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July 6, 2007 By

What does a family with 14 children look like?
Until Mother’s Day, our family had never had a photo of all 14 of us together. With a sister married and settled in Tennessee and 2 brothers working offshore on different 2 or 3 week shifts, we were beginning to doubt that it would ever happen.
It happened.
Here it is, preserved for posterity.

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You might be a large family if…

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January 5, 2007 By

…you toss a 4 pack of Scott Tissue in the shopping cart and your 7 yo refuses to believe that you’re really, seriously, going to walk out of the store with less than 12 rolls.

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Works for us and the Duggars

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October 25, 2006 By

After meeting the Duggar family last weekend, I just have to say that I feel at peace about our sock system. During a Q & A session, somebody asked about socks in their household, and it sounds like their system is very similar to ours. It’s certainly not flawless, but if it works for Michelle Duggar, it Works For Me.
Here’s the system:

  1. All kid socks are white. For the Duggars, all girl socks are white; all boy socks are black.
  2. All clean socks go in one basket. (Actually, we have a sock basket for each of the 2 kid bedrooms. Might change that soon, since one room invariably has no socks while the other has 37 pairs.)
  3. If the socks are the same size, they match.
  4. If the socks are your size, wear them.
  5. If you have special (i.e. colorful) socks, they’re your problem.

Well, she didn’t exactly say it like that, but I think that’s the gist of it.

It was so refreshing to meet another freakishly unusually large family like the one I came from and find that they do many things the same way. All of the children seemed genuinely happy, articulate and helpful, and there was no impression of chaos when the group moved about. This is how I remember my family when I was a child, and this is how I want our own household to feel as it grows.
I enjoyed bumping into them throughout the film festival, though as with everyone else I met I wish I had found time to visit with them more. The weekend flew by too quickly!
I was also challenged by their answer to an inquiry during a Q & A session:

Q: What is your biggest challenge?
A: Keeping up with the hearts of each of our children…

This is something that is so vital whether we have 1 child or 20, and an area where I think my husband excels, but I need a lot of work. As a mother, I find myself preoccupied keeping up with runny noses, meals and laundry.
I guess I’ll get off the computer now and go spend time with a child.

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You might be a large family if…

Current giveaway: Grandpa Jake's Campfire Cooker

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March 21, 2006 By

Help me out here – add your own to the list! Here are ours (all true):

  • a family of 4 dropping in for dinner doesn’t affect your menu or portion sizes.
  • you can’t decide if you need to order 2 of the Family Deals at Pizza Hut, or 3.
  • your children think it would be “weird” to have their own bedroom…or their own bed…or their own dresser…
  • the 6yo can trace the geneology of the shirt she is wearing back to the oldest.
  • the children are lonely when there are only 3 of them home.
  • your friends invite you to a birthday party – and you are the only guests.
  • if the socks are the same color, they match. if they fit, they’re yours.
  • ditto for shoes.
  • you’re hoping for twins next time, so you can finally get group rates at the zoo.
  • your children have to take turns at tea parties, because the set only comes with 4 cups.
  • you leave half of the children home when you shop, and people still ask if they’re all yours.
  • two carts just aren’t cutting it at the grocery store.
  • you snicker at food labelled, “family size.”
  • your daughter remarks that “even the tiny 7 oz cinnamon bottle isn’t running out too quickly.”
  • anything less than a dozen eggs is not enough to scramble for breakfast.
  • it doesn’t seem worth the effort to make just a single batch of cookies.
  • you drive a 15 passenger van because it’s the most fuel-efficient vehicle that fits your family.
  • you wonder what you’ll drive when you outgrow the 15 passenger van.
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Kids are cheap

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February 25, 2006 By

After reading this post on Free Money Finance, I just had to open my big fat mouth. Really, $15,000 for each year, for each child, to age 17? Do they really eat that much?
And if we didn’t have children, wouldn’t we find another way, probably far less fulfilling, to spend our money anyway?
I left a rather long comment, and then decided it was such a fine piece of literary frugality that I really had to save it for posterity. Here it is, for your reading pleasure:

I would estimate that our own expenses for 7 – count ‘em – 7 children, ages 19 months to 12 years, run roughly:

  • $350/month for food/non food grocery items (including toiletries, diapers, etc.) This is about 60% of our monthly grocery budget. Being small people, the children are much smaller eaters than hubby and I, and are collectively thrilled by a $4 bucket of ice cream, whereas our own treats rank a little higher on the financial and evolutionary scale. They also use far less of the disposable products as well – maybe since their bodies are smaller. Except the one in diapers: those run $25/month but are included in our monthly grocery, and she really doesn’t use her share of the food or toilet paper icon smile Kids are cheap
  • $50/month for clothes and shoes, most purchased secondhand and passed down through the ranks. It certainly helps having all girls, though I realize there will be a price to pay later. Kimberly Clark will be handing us the bill.
  • $140/month for health and dental insurance. This is the difference between a family rate and a couple rate on our particular policies.
  • $120/month in additional medical/dental bills. This includes births. This, like the others, is a rather generous estimate. We rarely have medical incidents or bills.
  • $200/month in extra gas and vehicle maintennance, due to driving the larger-than-average family vehicle required by our larger-than-average family.
  • $210/month: this represents 30% of our monthly housing and utilites, since we would likely have a somewhat smaller home without children. Actually, this is only true in theory. Our current home, which we are living in as we build it with our own 18 hands, *is* small by most standards, and our utilities are very reasonable.
  • $50/month in homeschooling expenses. Actually, much of this is used to buy books that Hubby and I enjoy as well. But just for the fun of it, we’ll tack the bill on the children.
  • $1000/year for birthdays and Christmas. This varies a lot, and is a rather generous estimate. But hey, we’re generous people, right? Why else would we want to feed and dress a bunch of kids?  sooo…grand total for annual support for all 7 children…$14,440

    Oh my. It appears we’re raising 7 for the price of 1. I guess we can afford #8. That’s good news, since Baby #8 is due to arrive in a few months.

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