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I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.

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Friends, I’ve been bad.  I knew weeks ahead of time, but I’ve been too lazy to blog and tell you about the HUGE ebook sale going on this week.

See?

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I knew ahead of time because the 4 Moms book is part of the bundle.  If you already bought your copy of our book, you’ll have digital rights to an extra that you can give as a gift when you buy this bundle!

This week only, you can get any or all of the 97 ebooks in this Ultimate Homemaking Bundle for just $29.97, plus $140 in free products!  No fair jumping to the bottom to see the freebies!

Prepare to be overwhelmed.  Here is a complete list of the books included.  Remember, you don’t have to take them all unless you want them all.  You can choose just what you will use yourself – but your links are only good for a limited time, so do download anything you think you might want in the future.  At 30 cents per book, you can’t go wrong!

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But wait! There’s more!

 

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But if you’re like me, you jumped ahead to see what else you could get for free.  Right?  Everything below is included free when you buy your ebooks.

 

Fit2B Logo I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.A FREE Two-Month Membership to Fit2B Studio, where their wholesome workouts for the whole family are tummy safe and particularly target Diastasis Recti (split abs). ($19.98 value. No shipping restrictions.)

TK Logo square I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.A $15 store credit to TruKid. With products like their aware-winning sun care, they are dedicated to providing all natural skin and hair care for kids, babies, and now pets. ($15.00 value. Standard shipping applies. International shipping available.)

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WheatGrassKits.com square I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.A FREE Culinary Herbs Assorted Seed Pack Check just in time for spring planting from www.wheatgrasskits.com, a living whole foods company. ($11.95 value. Standard shipping applies to all US states and territories- no international shipping for seeds.)

union 28 square logo I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.Get $10 off Union28′s original “my husband rocks” tee. Their marriage apparel lets you celebrate your spouse in style. ($10.00 value.Standard shipping rates apply. International shipping available, but free shipping only available within USA.)

Bee all natural square I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.A $10 store credit plus 1 FREE lip balm from Bee All Natural. Their whole body products nourish and heal, and are made using only the highest quality, food grade, organic ingredients. ($13.49 value.Standard shipping applies. International shipping available.)

TLH LOGO square I have been remiss. You can be a better homemaker.A FREE 2 oz. bottle of your choice of liquid herbal formula from TriLight Health. They specialize in fast acting, great tasting natural herbal remedies. ($12.95 value or moreStandard shipping applies, within the USA only.)

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What’s your favorite part of the deal?  I love the mission and designs of Union 28!  Wouldn’t their shirts make a fun wedding or anniversary gift?

5 Hardcover Dr. Seuss books for $5.95 (free shipping)

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20130227154233 0112 brp 300x250 5 Hardcover Dr. Seuss books for $5.95 (free shipping)Here’s a fun offer: Get 5 popular hardcover Dr. Seuss books for $5.95 total!  Shipping is free, and it comes with a cute little backpack to hold them, too.

Several of these titles are favorites in our house, and we have gone through many copies over the years:

  • Go, Dog, Go!
  • Ten Apples Up on Top
  • Mr. Brown Can Moo!
  • The Tooth Book
  • The Cat in the Hat

For an extra $5 you can also get Dr. Seuss’s ABC and One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish – that’s $11 for 7 hardback books.

This is a monthly club, so watch out for unwanted shipments.  You can cancel as soon as you like, without buying anything, but it’s really not a bad deal if you’re big on Dr. Seuss: additional shipments are still less than $5/book.

What’s your favorite Dr. Seuss book?  I love The Foot Book and The Cat in the Hat.

PS.  This one is not my cup of tea, but there is a similar offer for Disney books: Receive Toy Story 3, The Lion King, and 2 other books of your choice plus an activity book for $3.96.  That’s less than dollar each for hardback children’s books!  Wreck It Ralph is one of the available choices, and I’ve actually heard good things about the movie.

42 Days to Fit eBook

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42 days to fit sidebar 42 Days to Fit eBookMy friend Brandy, a mom of 8 boys who blogs at the Marathon Mom, emailed me this week asking for a small favor.  Brandy and two of her blogging friends have written an eBook for moms who want to shape up and lose a little weight.  It’s called 42 Days To Fit, and it will be FREE on Monday, February 4!

Since Calvin arrived, I have been a little frustrated.  I only gained 20 pounds when I was pregnant with him, and at 9 lbs. 4 oz. he was my biggest baby by far.  I was very excited to find that I was within 5 lbs. of my beginning weight just a week after he arrived.  But then my weight loss came to a screeching halt.  Calvin is over 3 months old now, and I haven’t lost a pound since his first week.  The worst part is that I’m not just hanging onto an extra 5 lbs.  I also have 5 lbs. from Parker…and another 5 from Bethany.  I have never struggled with my weight, but I have seen it creep up 15 lbs, and I don’t like that pattern.

And now Brandy wants to know if I’ll help spread the word about 42 Days To Fit, which will be FREE 2 days from now.

Affirmative.

I’m in.  My 42 days will start asap after I get my free copy on Monday.

Who’s with me?

Snapshot: reading to little ones

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The older girls have been going out of their way to spend some time with the little ones each morning. Lydia is reading Eric Carle’s book, Dragons, Dragons to Parker, taking time to discuss each illustration.

Do you love Hentys?

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If you know what a Henty is, you’re probably a fan.  G.A. Henty wrote some of the most famous boy’s adventure books of the 19th century!  Don’t worry: they’re not just for boys.  Our girls have loved them too!  Vision Forum has sold them almost since the beginning, but years ago they had to switch to a new publisher when the beautiful old Preston Speed version went out of print.

While the newer version is still very nice, the older version had more of an “old book” look and feel, and some people who had already begun their collections refused to buy the newer ones.

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Well, here’s some news that might excite old book aficionados: Vision Forum recently found a very limited quantity of Preston Speed Henty titles from a wholesale supplier who had purchased all of Preston Speed’s remaining Henty stock.  The price is $325 for a set of 20 heirloom quality out-of-print hardbacks.  That’s $16.25 per book, and you get free shipping on your entire order.

The Preston Speed’s Heirloom Hentys Collection includes the following 20 G.A. Henty titles, which are also available individually.

There are just a total of 70 sets, so I don’t know how long the deal will last.  If you want them, you’d better grab them.

Not sure what a Henty is?  Here’s a brief summary from the Vision Forum website:

When your child picks up a G.A. Henty historical novel, he will travel back in time to some of the greatest events in Western civilization. He will rejoice with an ancient barbarian who receives Christ, ride with Lee through the battlefields of Virginia, travel with the Conquistadors to distant lands, and watch the fall of the Temple of Jerusalem. Most importantly, he will see the world through the lens of biblical Christianity. In this world, he will learn that men are to live a life of duty and sacrifice, and that God requires even young men and little boys to act with nobility.

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Simplify Your Family Life ebook bundle

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simplify Simplify Your Family Life ebook bundleMother’s Day is coming, and here’s a perfect gift for the mom in your life.  Or maybe your sweet husband is wondering what he should buy you.  You could just leave this open on his screen…

The Simplify Family Life collection of 38 ebooks is on sale until Friday morning!

When purchased separately, these ebooks are worth $375, but for four days only, you can purchase the entire collection for just $29!

When you purchase the Simplify Family Life collection, you get instant access to each of the 38 ebooks listed below, including our very own 4 Moms of 35+ Kids Answer Your Parenting Questions!

Entrepreneurship & Blogging

Food & Cooking

Homemaking

Marriage & Relationships

Minimalism for Families

Parenting & Kids

Which of the books caught your eye first?  Which will you read first if you buy the Simplify Family Life collection?

The sale ends at 8 a.m. ET on April 20th, and there will be no late sales offered, so don’t wait.

Giveaway: The Christian Philosophy of Food (book)

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This week’s giveaway is a little paperback with an ambitious title: The Christian Philosophy of Food.  Maybe you’re surprised at the claim that there is a Christian philosophy of food?

What is so important about food? Is it really worth this much attention? On a basic level we can see that though we make our food, our food also makes us. You cannot escape food. It is one of the basic needs to survive; there are few others that are more integrated into our lives. What else have you done three times a day for your entire life? What we choose to eat affects our life tremendously, and our life affects what food we choose. It is vitally important to think about our food.

The author is a homeschool graduate, son of a PhD food scientist, and draws much of the book from dinnertime discussions.  He presents an interesting blend of perspectives.

Food is studied by nutritionists and chefs alike. Generally speaking, the scientific nutritionist looks at food as being composed of both healthful nutrients and harmful toxins or bacteria, mostly disregarding the art of food. Then the chefs look at the taste and presentation of food with little regard for health consequences. You either end up with food that is nutritious but tasteless or very tasty food that is a “heartattack on a plate.” Thus, food is a complex subject because it is a source of both nutrition and beauty. Both are important to Christians. As Christians, our whole persons are valuable, both the soul and the body, and thus health is important and not to be set aside as something that only “health nuts” think about.

The author makes a lot of theological statements on points that many people will consider debatable, and while he does footnote many of his scientific references there are many more points for which I would love to see more support.  But this book never claims to be comprehensive.  Think of it as a starting point, not an exhaustive work.

“Peter Bringe presents a careful, balanced, biblical approach to this important area of life that touches every one of us, every day. It is time for Christians to reexamine their eating habits, and realign their lives according to the principles and priorities offered in God’s Word.”
~Kevin Swanson,
Pastor, Reformation Church;
Director, Generations with Vision.

 

While I don’t agree with some of his statements, I do think this book does exactly what it’s intended to do: get us thinking about how our diets can and should glorify God, just like every other aspect of life.

The Giveaway

Win a copy of  The Christian Philosophy of Food by doing any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment for each entry.

  1. Leave a comment on this post.  Say something about your philosophy of food.  :)
  2. Share this giveaway on Facebook and/or Twitter.  Remember to leave a separate comment for each place you share it.
  3. Post about this giveaway on your blog, linking here and to The Christian Philosophy of Food.  3 entries for this!
  4. Like The Christian Philosophy of Food on Facebook.

This giveaway has ended.  The winner was Mary Jo @ Covenant Homemaking.

When Motherhood seems too hard

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I gave Kelly’s new ebook a plug on Facebook when she released it yesterday, but Perry called from work this morning to gently admonish me.  He reminded me how eagerly many of you received my Life With Littles and encouragement For Tired Young Mothers of Many posts.  ”Don’t you think Kelly’s book would strike a chord with your blog readers?”

I think he was right.  He usually is.

Motherhood When Motherhood seems too hard

Kelly Crawford of Generation Cedar has a new ebook for moms, and the title alone is perfect: Devotions, Advice & Renewal for When Motherhood Feels Too Hard.  Isn’t that every day?

When Motherhood Feels Too Hard is the daily inspiration you need to not just get through a day, but to FLOURISH as a mother, to build a home, and to ignite a passion in your children that will impact the next generation for the glory of God!

If the title wasn’t enough, I would be totally sold on Jennie Chancey’s review:

“This eBook is Kelly’s “cup of cold water” to mothers. We all need refreshment and encouragement when the hard days come, and Kelly has provided bite-sized (but meaty and thought-provoking) daily devotionals that urge us to take our calling as mothers seriously but remember at the same time that we are vessels of clay in need of God’s filling. These words are true whether you are the mother of one or the mother of ten! Thank you, Kelly, for sharing your beautiful insights into the calling of motherhood “from the trenches!” -Jennie Chancey, Ladies Against Feminism

When Motherhood Feels Too Hard is available as an instant download (PDF) or for your Kindle.  I’ll be starting my copy very soon.  Anyone want to join me?

 

Giveaway: The Last Pilgrims book

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It’s been too long since our last giveaway, and this week we’re going to get started again with something a little different and fun for Life in a Shoe, but the off-grid lifestyle holds a strong appeal for many people.  Michael Bunker’s non-fiction book on the subject, Surviving Off Off-Grid: Decolonizing the Industrial Mind, received very positive reviews.

Now he has a fictional offering in a similar vein: The Last Pilgrims, scheduled for release on Feb. 24.

About the Book

More than your typical post-apocalyptic fare, The Last Pilgrims could well be one of the most important and prescient novels of our time.  Twenty years in the future is five-hundred years in the past.  It is just two decades after the worldwide societal collapse and the Vallenses, an Amish-like “plain people” living and surviving in what was once Central Texas, are under attack by the King of Aztlan and his armies. The pacifistic Vallenses are defended by the shadowy Ghost Militia and their inspiring leader Phillip, a militant freeman who wages a guerilla war with Aztlan.

Jonathan Wall and the thriving agrarian community of Vallenses have prospered by living the simple and sustainable ways of the past.  In a massively depopulated world, balkanization is a reality and monarchy is back.  A corrupt kingdom arises, led by a king who cannot abide freemen on lands that he covets.  Just as the Vallenses send off a plea to the benevolent King of the South States, a mysterious assassin misses his target: Jonathan Wall.

Phillip “the Ghost” is on a personal mission to save the Vallenses – even if it is against their will, while Jonathan’s own son David and his fearless teenage daughter Ruth are led to challenge their pacifistic upbringing and question whether or not the time has come for the Vallenses to fight for the land, the people, and the God they love.

The Last Pilgrims is a modern re-telling of the forgotten history of the Ancient Waldenses – simple farmers who lived in the valleys of the Alps for hundreds of years despite repeated attempts to annihilate them.  Full of tragedy, adventure, humor, and love, The Last Pilgrims is a rare post-apocalyptic saga that takes history and casts it into the future, while examining that future in light of the errors of the present and the past.

Check out the YouTube trailer. I haven’t had a chance to read it yet, but let’s be honest:  how many books have a trailer this cool?

This book is brand new, but reviews from previewers are already looking good.  I really like the last part of this review, where the blogger describes The Four Things I Appreciated Most About The Last Pilgrims:

  1. The period piece feel of the book. I am a sucker for period pieces, historical fiction, historical non-fiction, and any book that tells a good story with historical context weaved throughout. The Last Pilgrims actually takes place in the future, but because of the agrarian setting is feels like 500 years in the past.
  2. Discusses a “collapse” without the paranoia. The story is set twenty years after the breakdown of the industrial society that we know today. Because of this it would be really easy for it to slip into the crazy conspiracy theory and paranoia-oriented post-apocalyptic fiction genre. Fortunately, Mr. Bunker writes the scenario in a very realistic, matter-of-fact way that focuses more on the sustainability of this new life than it does the paranoid zombie conspiracy theories.
  3. Action as part of a good plot line. I almost never reach for an action-packed thriller first when I need a good read. Perhaps this is the reason I was a bit skeptical of the book. It’s not you, it’s me. But I was really pleased to find the action, battles, and suspense in The Last Pilgrims done tastefully and not at the cost of character development or a real, engaging plot line.
  4. Humor balances the drama. Humor is used throughout the book, mostly via witty banter between the characters. This makes the storyline just feel more real, engaging, and light enough to balance out the very real and serious drama playing out.

 

From another review:

“Fantastic writing… excellent, well-crafted and imaginative…

It is rare that someone has such aptitude to interweave so many elements into their work, that it not only conveys a very important message, but it is also a true pleasure to read. Your well-developed characters, the really well considered plot, timing and flow of narrative have really helped in creating a true masterpiece. You really made me stop and think about a life that is possibly lurking not far in the future, when having almost instant access to people, places and material possessions would be impossible.

- Natasha

THE GIVEAWAY
Interested?  You can enter to win your own paperback copy of this book!  There are several ways to enter.  Be sure to leave a separate comment for each one.
  1. Leave a comment here.
  2. Link to this giveaway on your blog, facebook, and/or twitter.
  3. Link to The Last Pilgrims on your blog, facebook, and/or twitter.
  4. Like The Last Pilgrims on Facebook.
  5. Remember, if you have joined the mailing list for the Life in a Shoe newsletter, you are automatically entered in every giveaway!

I’ll take entries through Thursday and will announce a random winner on Friday, February 24 – the day the book will be released.

This giveaway has ended.  The winner was newsletter subscriber, Britton!

Giveaway: The Family Daughter (book)

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cover tfd1 191x300 Giveaway: The Family Daughter (book)In her new book The Family Daughter: Becoming Pillars of Strength in Our Father’s House, homeschooler Sarah Bryant shares from her own struggles and triumphs, encouraging young ladies to become vital cornerstones in their father’s home, while preparing for godly womanhood. Sarah addresses topics ranging from honoring parents, to serving others, to investing in our walk with Christ, to being a light to the world.  Each chapter includes encouragement and real-life examples of how girls can apply Biblical principles in their daily life.

Filled with encouragement and practical ideas, The Family Daughter will help Christian girls begin the journey of being their family’s pillar of strength and virtue. If you have a daughter at home, this book is sure to be a blessing to her – leave a comment to enter in our giveaway.

“In this utterly transparent book, Sarah Bryant speaks from her heart about the daily walk of the daughter at home… If you are a daughter at home, this book will encourage you to pursue the Lord’s work with new vision. Including testimonies from many other young women, The Family Daughter doesn’t paint an unrealistic picture of perfection but deals with the reality of our sin nature in the light of Christ’s promises to His people.” – Mrs. Jennie Chancey

Filled with encouragement and practical ideas, The Family Daughter will help Christian girls begin the journey of being their family’s pillar of strength and virtue.  Read an excerpt from The Family Daughter.

ENTER THE GIVEAWAY!

One winner will receive a free paperback copy of The Family Daughter!

To enter the giveaway, do any or all of the following.  Please leave a separate comment here for each entry.

  • Subscribe to The King’s Blooming Rose Magazine
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  • Subscribe to Life in a Shoe.  You can use the box at the top of the sidebar to subscribe by email if you prefer.  If you’re already a subscriber, that counts too!
  • Join the Life in a Shoe newsletter to be automatically entered in every giveaway.  No need to leave a comment for this one! Note: this is not the same as subscribing to our blog posts.
  • For 3 bonus entries, blog about this giveaway. Remember to leave 3 comments for this so you’ll be entered 3 times.

We will take entries until Friday, December 16, then choose a random winner!

This giveaway has ended.  The winner, chosen by random.org, was Jessica C.  She was automatically entered in the drawing because she is a subscriber to our mailing list.

For sale: Ballantyne adventure library (20 hardback volumes)

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I bought these books for my own personal use around a year ago, but I only read a few before I got distracted by other books, such as Lord of the Rings, the Inkheart trilogy, C. S. Lewis’ ‘Space Trilogy’ and other interesting but not as useful books. We have another set of such books in the house so I don’t need my own set anyway, and I’m trying to earn a bit of money so I can pay my sister back for her half of my shiny new guitar she helped me buy.

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I haven’t been playing guitar long.  I started at the beginning of July. The only guitar we had in the house was a rather beaten up student size, so I decided I needed a nice full size of my own. Mom has a Yamaha 12 string that was living with Grandma.  We brought that one back home and I really liked it, but I still wanted something a little easier to play than a 12 string, and better than a 12 year old student size guitar. I decided I definitely wanted a Yamaha and started looking at the reviews for the different types. I settled on a FG720s. Dad took me to Guitar Center at the beginning of their huge Labor Day weekend sale and to my disappointment they were out of that particular type.  The man in the acoustic room was very helpful.  He showed me a slightly different and also much better guitar(fg730s). It was on sale for $250, and counting sales tax it came up to about $280 which was what I was ready to pay for the other guitar. The cool thing is this one is a step up from my first choice, and consequently normally costs up to $100 more when not on sale. All the reviews said to wait, save your money and pay the extra because this one is just that awesome. So I now have my very own sparkly.

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Normally I wouldn’t be in such a rush to earn money right now but the guitar is half Deanna’s until I pay her back. I also need to buy fabric for an outfit ’cause some friends are having a medieval costume party in just a few short months. So, if you can help me out I would be much obliged.

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Here’s what I have for sale:

Complete R.M. Ballantyne Adventure Library (20 Volumes)

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Includes the following titles, all in Brand New or Like New condition (some have the very tiniest bit of shelf wear), suitable for gift giving:

These books usually cost $22 each, and the complete set of 20 is $330 right now.  I will sell all 20 for  $200 with free shipping inside the continental US.

4 Moms: Large Family Logistics linky (appendices)

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Welcome, welcome.  If you’ve stuck with us for the past few weeks, you are probably already sold on this book.  If you still have doubts about whether it can help you, maybe this week’s post will clear them up.

I don’t always read the appendix in a book, but this time I’m glad I did.  These are helpful and meaty, but short enough that you can read both appendices when the kids start their naps, and they will probably still be awake when you finish.

The 2 appendices in Large Family Logistics are actually a good place to start if you are feeling overwhelmed or beyond help.  Fixing a broken system may seem hard when you’re barely keeping your head above water, but it can get easier right away – there’s no need for it to get harder before it gets easier.  If your daily life is in such a mess that you lack motivation to try to improve it, have a quick look at Appendix A: Coping While Exhausted and Overwhelmed.  It’s just 4 pages of encouragement and instruction on feeling better and starting on the road to improvement, with specific tips on how and where to start.

If  you just don’t know where or how to start, flip to Appendix B: Moving Beyond Survival Mode and use the checklist to get started in 12 easy steps.  This is basically a summary and condensation of all the material covered in the book – an overview to give you the big picture view so you know where you’ll be heading and how you’ll get there.  You can do this, and your family will thank you!

If you have your own copy of Large Family Logistics you are invited to blog about it and join us with the linky below!

Please remember the linky rules:

  1. You must link to a specific relevant post on your blog.
  2. Your post must include a link to at least one of the 4 Moms.
  3. The post to which you link must be completely family friendly.

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Upcoming topics for 4 Moms:

  • September 1 - Keeping your patience in the midst of chaos
  • September 8 - Lunches for hubby
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    4 Moms: Large Family Logistics linky, part 2

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    4moms35kids 4 Moms: Large Family Logistics linky, part 2
    It’s Thursday again already, so welcome back to the 4 Moms.  This week we are continuing our blog through Large Family Logistics, picking up where we left off last week.

    Today we’re talking about the first portion of part 2: chapters 18-27, which deals with planning your week.

    In these chapters, author Kim details her own system for getting things done.  She has a Kitchen Day, Laundry Day, Office Day, Town Day, etc. each week, and strives to use those days toward catching up and keeping up with the chores that so often get neglected because they don’t demand daily attention.

    She recommends setting up a simple notebook which contains (so far) a single page for each day of the week with an outline of day’s routine.  No need for a hard fast schedule which may just add to the stress when you realize you are 27 minutes behind.  Just jot down what you want to accomplish on this day every week, in the order you plan to tackle items, being sure to leave the least important for last.

    There’s more to it than that, of course, and much of what I love about her system is in the details – or lack thereof.  I think Kim strikes a difficult and delicate balance between too much detail (overwhelming) and not enough (lack of focus or direction).  She is also very careful not to dictate too many specifics of what belongs on your schedule or list of priorities, while providing plenty of examples from her own personal list and life.

    I won’t necessarily use every aspect of this system, but I’m betting my husband would be very happy if our days were a little more organized around here, and this may be just the tool to set us on the right path.

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    If you have your own copy of Large Family Logistics you are invited to blog about Part 2 (chapters 18-27) and join us with the linky below!

    Please remember the linky rules:

    1. You must link to a specific relevant post on your blog.
    2. Your post must include a link to at least one of the 4 Moms.
    3. The post you link to must be completely family friendly.

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    This week we begin our 4 week long blog-through of Kim Brenneman’s book, Large Family Logistics: The Art and Science of Managing the Large Family.  If you don’t already own a copy, the promo code 4MOMS will get you a 40% discount through midnight tonight (August 4).

    In a peculiarly appropriate display of why I need this book, I spent this morning reading through the first 125 pages so that I could write this post.  I should also mention that one of my own daughters bought the book for me.  In her defense (and my own), she knew that I was interested in the title and also bought me several other books at the same time.  Nonetheless, I confess that I can learn much from this book.

    My own notes on Part 1, which consists of the first 17 chapters:

    This portion of the book deals with mom’s attitude, heart issues, goals, definitions, and nearly everything but the day-to-day nitty gritty of how to get things done.  It very nearly could be a book in itself, and even though the author and I have roughly the same number of children I picked up plenty of new ideas and was reminded of some very good concepts that have gone by the wayside in our own household.

    Every chapter has an important focus, of course, but these are the ones that made me stop and take note for the benefit of our own home:

    1. The Wise Woman

    A blow-by-blow breakdown of the legendary Proverbs 31 wife, and how her skills translate to us today.  God gave us a checklist, and we need to refer to it regularly.  With a little creativity and allowance for changes in technology, all of the qualities mentioned can be applied today just as well as they could 3,000 years ago.

    2. Goals

    Here I was reminded that if we aim at nothing, we hit it every time.  We need to know exactly what we want to accomplish and why.  This includes projects, but also should encompass other aspects of household management: hospitality (how much and how often?), meal planning, daily routines and scheduling, housekeeping, homeschooling.

    When it comes to projects, we have many in the works in our house at any given time, but our list of finished projects is much shorter than I’d like to admit.  Not only do I need to keep the list in front of me and the children, I need to make sure Perry and I are on the same page about which items belong at the top of the list. Kim also reminds us that our husbands will want to dictate all the details of certain goals, while delegating the specifics of other goals to us.  Both are equally valid ways for our men to exercise their own role as head of household and we need to work graciously and self-consciously in both cases.

    5. Attitude is Critical

    This chapter addresses a variety of attitude issues on the parts of all family members, but the one that caught my attention is “I can’t.”  Rather than “I can’t,” her children are taught to say, “I’ll do my best.”  They learn that “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”  (Ph. 4:13)

    Like the author, we don’t allow those words in our house, and we teach our children the same verse in Philippians.  She mentioned, however, that a friend overwhelmed with little ones once asked if she ever felt that way and the immediate response was a resounding “no.”

    I received a very similar question just yesterday and my answer was a little different, though we both end up at the same place: I tell overwhelmed mothers that if you ever feel like you can do it all yourself, you’re about to get humbled by God.  As Kim says later in chapter 12, “…children are a blessing that drives us to Christ because we are incapable of parenting well without Him…”  Alone, you most certainly can’t. With Christ, you can do all things.

    9. Give Your Children a Work Ethic

    I love Kim’s tips on teaching children to work (“Feed the dog and empty the trash?  Scrape the hog floor didn’t make the list?”), but I also had a good giggle about her suggestion to have little ones carry folded laundry in a dishpan.  The Headmistress mentioned a multitude of uses for dishpans in her post on Frugal Hacks last week and a commentor asked who actually puts books in a dishpan.  Apparently it’s a big family/homeschooler thing.  I need to get more dishpans!

    I also completely agree when she exhorts mothers to teach the older children well, because the older ones will help teach the younger ones attitude, character traits, and chores.  There is a trickle-down effect with children, so make sure you’re not polluting the waters upstream!

    I have heard it said that “children should not be required to work because they will be working the rest of their lives”; that “childhood is the one time in life that they can just play and be children.”  If you embrace this perspective, you will set your children up for failure.  If children aren’t taught to work when they are young, then they will find it hard to work the rest of their life…

    This chapter also contains a list of verses from Proverbs that deal with work.  I like Kim’s suggestion to write these on index cards and post them throughout the house.

    10. Repeating Yourself?

    We moms are busy people.  We’re great at multi-tasking.  But child discipline isn’t something that can be multi-tasked.  We need to stop and focus.  We need to train ourselves to hear ourselves.  It’s hard – no doubt about it.  But repeating ourselves is training our children to continue in disobedience.

    11. Teaching a New Chore

    I have written out the detailed steps to chores on a full piece of paper, inserted it in a page protector and hung it on the wall in the appropriate room, but wasn’t really happy with how it worked for us.  The page was so big I wanted to put it away when guests came over, and the instructions were so detailed that I found the ones who needed them most were a little overwhelmed.  I plan to use Kim’s suggestion to use index cards instead, taped near the job site.

    17. Dress for Success

    Among other things, this chapter has a long list of what works in clothes for a busy and what doesn’t.  I learned most of these lessons the hard way over the years, so young moms would do well to look the list over before the toddler yanks your wrap-around skirt wide open in the middle of the WalMart parking lot.

    I was intrigued by Kim’s suggestion that moms might want to consider having an outfit (or 2 or 3) for each particular day of the week – Office Day, Kitchen Day, Town Day, etc.  Like a weekly menu, this would save time and ensure that choices are appropriate to the task at hand.  I’m not saying I’ll do it, but I’m not saying I won’t.  What do you think of the idea?

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    If you have your own copy of Large Family Logistics you are invited to blog about Part 1 and join us with the linky below!

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  • August 18 - Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics,  part 2b (chapters 28-47: the nitty gritty details)
  • August 25 – Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics, appendices
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    4 Moms Q&A: Author of Large Family Logistics answers questions!

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    Here it is, folks!  The first edition in our 5 part series on the book, Large Family Logistics by blogging mom of 10 Kim Brenneman.

    This week we have 3 special surprises for you!

    First, we usually have a q&a for the 4th Thursday of every month but this time Kim Brenneman is the one answering questions!

    Our complete list of Q&A will be divided among not just 4, but 5 blogging moms of many – Kim Brenneman is joining us for this event!

    Here are 3 questions to kick things off:

    Question: What’s your best advice for a mom of many with teens?

    Kim’s Answer: Pray pray pray. Don’t get caught up on the little things. Choose your battles. Stay calm and relaxed. Listen closely. Listen some more. Don’t settle for the quick answers. Draw them out. Remember what it felt like to be that particular age. Pay attention to what is going on in their life.  Keep them busy and focused on developing their particular interests and strengths. Help them see that they can complement each others’ strengths and weaknesses and develop teamwork. Help them create a family business. A good question for teens and adult children that I just learned from an older and wiser friend, “How does _______ fit your worldview?” Everything centers around a person’s worldview. Keep them challenged. Don’t quit now.

    Question: Do you regularly dedicate a day to each task every week or do you sometimes just wing it for weeks and months on end?

    Kim’s Answer: Life works better when each day has a task. When life is busy we will put tasks off but we can do it with confidence knowing that next week or month we will do that task. Winging it makes for a chaotic situation and everyone in the family is happier and more secure with order. God’s creation is full of order. Every time I teach a child about the multiplication table I am again amazed. Or biology and how cells work. How our bodies work. To wing it is not God’s best and things in life break down when we let busy-ness or ill planned days go on for too long. When we restore order life goes more smoothly for everyone in the house.

    Question: How do you find the strength, energy and motivation to keep going when every tasks seems so never ending?

    Kim’s Answer: Pray. Read the Bible. Take my vita-pills. Drink water. The work isn’t going anywhere. It just gets deeper. I’d rather clean up a little mess than a big one. And learn to accept that certain things are never done. They will need to eat, wear clothes, and have a bowl to put their oatmeal in.


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    Second surprise: Kim Brenneman will be visiting our blogs to answer more questions in the comments!  If you have a question you’d like her to answer, leave it here.  Of course Kim can’t promise to answer every single question right away, but she will address as many as she can.

    And finally, the third surprise for this week: The 4 Moms have an exclusive promo code to save you 40% on your own copy of Large Family Logistics!

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    Order quickly and you can have your own copy in time to link up when we start blogging through the book next Thursday!


    Upcoming topics for 4 Moms:

  • August 4 - Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics, part 1: foundations and methods
  • August 11 – Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics, part 2 (chapters 18-27: planning your week)
  • August 18 - Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics,  part 2b (chapters 28-47: the nitty gritty details)
  • August 25 – Book blogging linky: Large Family Logistics, appendices
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    4 Moms giveaway: Large Family Logistics!!!

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    We’re really excited about this, and we think you will be too.  Did you see the 3 exclamation points at the end of this post title?  Think about it: how often have you seen me do that?  I am not an excitable person (unless there’s a scorpion in my bed).  But this, this is exciting!

    Each of the 4 Moms is going to give away a free copy of Large Family Logistics by Kim Brenneman, highly organized mom of 10 kids.  Enter at all 4 of our blogs to pump up your chances of winning – you’re allowed!

    And why do you think we’re giving away copies of Large Family Logistics?

    Because we’re going to spend the month of August blogging through the book and we want you to join us.  We’re going to do 4 consecutive weeks of linkies!  The more, the merrier, so get ready and tell all your blogging friends to get ready too!

    About the book:

    Moms have many tasks to tackle and obstacles to overcome: the laundry monster, household clutter and cleaning needs, caring for babies and little ones, menu planning and mealtime routines, town outings, homeschooling, bill paying—and even more!

    Like many wives and mothers, author Kim Brenneman didn’t start out with all of the answers. She struggled to figure out: What do I do next? What’s the best way to actually do the many things that need to be done? And how do I get everything accomplished in a 24-hour day and keep my sanity?

    In Large Family Logistics, Kim outlines practical solutions she has learned to effectively manage a busy household. This how-to manual is filled with step-by-step procedures, easy-to- understand organizational advice, and a myriad of tips and hints for managing a bustling home with greater efficiency in a way that honors God and builds up family relationships.

    Sensible and straightforward, Kim tackles the nitty- gritty, day-to-day challenges moms face and also offers sound counsel on how to plan and accomplish long-term domestic goals. An invaluable home management resource that will equip busy moms to get beyond survival mode and thrive!

     

    Large Family Logistics Giveaway

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    • Leave a comment on this post telling me what area of your home could use the most help.

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    • Share about this giveaway on Facebook.
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    • Don’t forget to enter the other 3 Moms’ giveaways!

    We’ll announce the 4 winners next Thursday.

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    Ballantyne adventures for half price

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    Vision Forum runs a lot of sales, and I don’t tell you about every single one, but I do want to mention this one because we love these books.

    Save 50% on Any 3 or More Ballantyne Christian Adventure Classics (ends midnight, April 20)

    Ballantyne’s books are filled with shipwrecks, polar bears, Viking expeditions, pirate attacks, Eskimo encounters, the deep jungles of Africa and South America, gold mines, dangerous savages, and many other heart-pounding, page-turning adventures. But though his tales featured earthly adventures and conquests, they were also self-consciously and vigorously Christian.

    Not sure where to start?  I’ve got you covered.  I asked a few of the girls for recommendations.51704 s Ballantyne adventures for half price

    The Coral Island – A classic.  Lord of the Flies was written in response to this from an evolutionary view, arguing that children left to themselves would not conduct themselves in such a civilized way.

    The Gorilla Hunters – The sequel to Coral Island, but also very good as a standalone.

    The Lonely Island – Dark, but good.  A favorite of both Lydia and Megan.51710 s Ballantyne adventures for half price

    Martin Rattler – Lydia’s second favorite.

    The Dog Crusoe and His Master - Deanna’s favorite.

    Blue Lights - Megan’s very favorite.

    Red Rooney - Megan’s favorite, second only to Blue lights

    Fighting the Flames - Who doesn’t love a good old-fashioned story about firefighters?

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    4 Moms discuss books for early readers

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    Welcome back to the weekly 4 Moms post, in which 4 moms with a collective total of 35 children share our knowledge, experience and and helpful tips in maintaining health, order and sanity.

    This week we’re offering up book recommendations for beginning readers.  Early reading is an exciting time for little ones, and an equally exciting time for those of us teaching them.  I love to see the spark as they begin to realize that they can do this!

    See what the other 3 moms suggest:

  • Connie at Smockity Frocks
  • Headmistress at The Common Room
  • Kimberly at Raising Olive
  • Bob Books 4 Moms discuss books for early readers are the ultimate in early readers. Even a child who doesn’t know the entire alphabet can experience the sense of accomplishment that comes from reading an entire book on her own.

    I’m not crazy about Dr. Seuss books in general because they are geared toward the look-say reading method, but there are some that are useful and undeniably appealing.

    Little Bear books by Elsie Minarik are popular, but they have never appealed to me or my young readers.  The vocabulary is just too simple and stilted for my taste.

    • Amelia Bedelia was in our list of books to read to little ones, but it’s also a wonderful early reader with lots of easy words and funny stories.
    • Syd Hoff books 4 Moms discuss books for early readers have simple, charming illustrations and cute stories that are short enough even for a slow reader to finish in one sitting.  We have Sammy the Seal and Thunder Hoof, but I know there are many more.

    Short, easy chapter books are handy to have around as beginning readers gain speed and confidence.  I love to see them become more and more immersed in stories as they gain fluency.

    • 514zdUD7WRL. BO2,204,203,200 PIsitb sticker arrow click,TopRight,35, 76 AA300 SH20 OU01  4 Moms discuss books for early readersLittle House Chapter Books 4 Moms discuss books for early readers – Heavily condensed and simplified excerpts from the series.  I like that it uses the original illustrations by Garth Williams (did I get the name right?)
    • Frog and Toad – Cute, charming and funny.  What more can you ask? 4 Moms discuss books for early readers
    • We Both Read – A series in which all the left pages have a few lines of very simple text for the child to read, while all the right pages have longer and more complex vocabulary for the parent to read. 4 Moms discuss books for early readers We loved our 2 titles for years and were excited to discover that there are many more.
    • Grandma’s Attic 4 Moms discuss books for early readers – Slightly more complex vocabulary, but chapters are hilarious stand-alone stories that make children want to take on the challenge.
    • Billy and Blaze –  A boy and his pony.  Even girls love these stories.

    Those are favorites in our house.  What are some of your favorite books, series and authors for beginning readers?


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    • March 24 – Large families & church, part 1
    • March 31 – Q and A

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  • February 3 -Teaching reading, because it’s so much easier than teaching them to use the toilet.  Do not request a 4 Moms post about potty training, do you hear me?
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  • January 20 – Top 10 Books for Preschoolers
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  • January 6 – Teaching Bible
  • 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers

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    Welcome back to the weekly 4 Moms post, in which 4 moms with a collective total of 35 children share our knowledge, experience and and helpful tips in maintaining health, order and sanity.

    This week we’re going to chat about some of our favorite books for preschoolers.  This is a huge topic in which we can only begin to scratch the surface – which is another way of saying there’s no way I can hope to remember all my favorite titles so I’ll just tell you the ones that pop into my head first.

    As usual, I suggest you first visit the other 3 moms.  This will buy me some time to get my act together, allowing me to pretend that I planned ahead and thought about this post all week, when actually I spent most of the last week…well…doing stuff I don’t actually remember.  But I’m sure it was really important stuff, and that’s why I didn’t plan ahead and think about this post all week.

  • Connie at Smockity Frocks
  • Headmistress at The Common Room
  • Kimberly at Raising Olives
  • Oh, you’re back already?  Time flies when you’re thinking about books – especially when you’re trying to choose favorites.  Having a favorite book is like having a favorite child: there’s no such thing.  You love some for one reason, and others for another reason, but you love them all differently and each is special.

    When we say preschool books, my mind automatically goes to very short, simple books, but I would encourage you to try out longer books on the little ones as well.  You might be surprised at the writing level they will enjoy if you offer good ones that catch and keep their attention.  I am nearly done reading Bud and Me to 4yo Perry Boy. This is the true story of 5yo and 9yo brothers who made a cross country trip on horseback unattended, along with their subsequent adventures.  The subject matter seems perfect for a young boy but when I began, I was afraid the level of detail and the relatively mature writing style would put off my son.  As it turns out, the subject matter is so interesting to him that he loves it and really pays attention, asking tons of questions along the way.  This slows me down but it also shows me that he is really listening and comprehending.

    A little tip to avoid frustration: buy hardbacks if at all possible.  Used is better than new, because then you won’t be tempted to lose your cool the first time somebody leaves a marker, a baby and a book all in the same 3 foot radius.  We have found that no paperback lasts long enough to be worth the price unless it’s absolutely free.  I would much rather have a 10 year old hardback with a few more years of life left in it than a brand new softcover that will fall apart the 3rd time it’s read.

    Oh – and one more word of warning: many of the best books for preschoolers are available as board books, but be careful: they are sometimes abridged, and like longer books the process can rob them of much of what makes them special.

    Here’s a short list of our longstanding favorites for the very youngest crowd.

    Top 10 Books for Preschoolers

    1. Goodnight Moon 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – This is an eternal favorite in our house.  We could probably dispense with the book itself because I’m sure we all know it by heart, but nonetheless we always have at least one copy in circulation plus one or two backups.  This is also a favorite baby shower gift as part of a basket or collection of baby items.
    2. 51NVPZNGE1L. AA160  4 Moms: Top Ten Books for PreschoolersThe Runaway Bunny 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – The main reason we fell in love with this is because it is featured in Goodnight Moon.  We also like to ad-lib the text, making up our own threats that are ever-so-much meaner than what the mother bunny actually says.  Try it.  It’s fun.  Your kids will beg you to stop and read the book properly, but they can’t help but laugh at the same time.
    3. The Foot Book 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – I’m not a huge Dr. Seuss fan, but we have loved our way through several copies of this one.  A word of warning: don’t buy the board book version.  It’s severely shortened.
    4. 5197DLHAiHL 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for PreschoolersThe Going-to-Bed Book 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers by Sandra Boynton – This sweet and silly bedtime book charmed me from the start.  You just have to see it and feel the gentle lilting rhythm of the text.  Is it just me, or is it simply adorable?
    5. Many titles by Eric Carle – I don’t like all of his books, but his illustrations are fun and unique, and there is a handful that we love: The Very Hungry Caterpillar 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers, Brown Bear 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers, The Very Busy Spider 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers come to mind immediately.
    6. 51H2N117WVL. AA160  4 Moms: Top Ten Books for PreschoolersWhen I Was Little: A Four-Year-Old’s Memoir of Her Youth 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers, by Jamie Lee Curtis – Yes, the actress writes children’s books.  She has several, but this is the one that captivated this mom of many 4yo’s.  Doesn’t the title say it all?
    7. Miss Spider’s Tea Party 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – Why? I don’t know.  Maybe it’s the contrast between the idea of a prim and proper tea party, and a spider that should be creepy but isn’t.  Just like with movies, I think the sequels lack the charm and originality of the first.
    8. 51X1Q6FpAaL. AA160  4 Moms: Top Ten Books for PreschoolersGuess How Much I Love You 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – How many books are there about a daddy’s love for his little one?  Not enough, but this one covers the topic just perfectly.
    9. Amelia Bedelia 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – We love her.  She thinks like we do, only without the sarcasm.
    10. Madeline 4 Moms: Top Ten Books for Preschoolers – Would any house full of girls be complete without this story?  I don’t know how many copies of this we’ve run through, but one of my daughters has even written a brief parody of her own.

    There you have my Top 10.  What’s on your list?  Why?


    Upcoming topics for 4 Moms 35 Kids:

    • January 27: Q & A.  Got a question?  Leave it in the comments on my last Q&A post.  Or you can email me, but I promise you right now I will lose your email and forget to answer your question for 15 months.  By then, you probably will have found your own answer.
    • February 3 - Teaching reading, because it’s so much easier than teaching them to use the toilet.  Do not request a 4 Moms post about potty training, do you hear me?
    • February 10 – Cooking with little ones.  With, I said.  Not Cooking Little Ones.
    • February 17 – Spending individual time with your children: isn’t the very topic enough to make you feel guilty?
    • February  24 – Q & A

    Giveaway #5: Audiobooks by Victoria Botkin (4 winners!)

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    I know I say this about every giveaway, but I’m really excited about today’s giveaway.  I consider Mrs. Botkin a dear friend and mentor, and am delighted that she has begun recording audiobooks in her warm, soothing voice.  I have long thought Victoria’s voice was perfectly suited to the task and here at least we have the product of her efforts!

    AMERICAN HEROINES IN THEIR OWN WORDS
    America has a remarkable but largely unknown legacy of courageous, intelligent, Christian women. “Voices from the Past” relates the stories of four of these women in their own words, taken from their letters and diaries. Hear from a brave frontier bride, a visionary colonial daughter, an intrepid immigrant woman, and a wise founding mother, as Victoria Botkin breathes life into the words of real heroines of American history.

    Real history, unfiltered by purposely irrelevant textbooks, inspires and fascinates. Read aloud, it becomes accessible to even young children. Enhanced with sound effects and period music.

    Titles in this series include:

    The Giveaway

    This time we get to choose not one, but four winners!  Each winner will receive the title of her choice on CD.  We’re currently listening to A Bride Goes West. Which one would you choose?


    Standard giveaway rules:

    1. For your first entry, visit the sponsor’s site, then come back and tell me what you think. Be honest and original.  By original, I mean say something more descriptive than, “Nice site.”  You’ll have to, because if you say that my spam filter will shoot on site.  By honest, I mean say something nice.  If you don’t like the site, then you don’t want to enter the giveaway so you don’t need to comment.  Right?  Right.
    2. For up to 3 extra entries, post about this giveaway on your blog, Facebook, and Twitter. Please be a friend and make my life easy by leaving a separate comment here for each time that you share about the giveaway.
    3. I’ll take entries on this giveaway for 7 days, then I will choose a random winner. If I procrastinate and/or forget to choose the winner, I will eventually choose the winner from among those entries that were submitted within the first 7 days.  Deal?

    Tuesday poetry: Some of Mine

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    posted by Deanna

    I wrote this poem on Sunday. It sort of popped into my head after we read the Nicene Creed during church, and kept niggling until I wrote it down. But it wasn’t only the Nicene Creed that made me want to write it. I’ve been reading a fantasy series lately and it’s really irked me how hopeless the worldview behind it is. You follow the good guys on their perilous quest, and they lose a few people, and right at the last minute they beat the bad guys by the skin of their teeth….and that’s it. See what I mean? There’s no higher good, it’s just depressing.

    Thusly, I wrote this poem.

    Happy reading!

    I believe,

    in only He

    who made the stars

    and spoke the sea.

    Who formed the land

    with one small thought,

    and freed our hands

    that we be taught.

    I put my trust

    in the great I AM,

    the conquering king,

    the slaughtered lamb.

    By his love,

    are all things stayed.

    Your every breath…

    The price is paid.

    How rightfully

    the Elder sing,

    “Give glory to

    our God the King!”

    Tuesday Poetry: More of mine

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    Posted by: Deanna

    I wrote this poem after I dreamed it. It was really vivid and stuck with me for a lot longer than dreams usually do. I don’t know how weirded out some of y’all will be by the tragic parts of this, but you should remember one thing as you read it. If you don’t like this poem, you can just scroll down the page or go to another website. I didn’t have that option. Dreams don’t work that way. In my dreams, even when I squeeze my eyes shut, or cover them with my hands, I still see what’s happening.

    Happy reading!

    The Man Who Was

    The man who was, I speak of he
    who loved a girl, and loved the sea

    Oh, what of it, if his skin was gray?
    what if his eyes were strange as they say?

    Someone cared, and someone hated,
    because he loved, was not degraded.

    Smiling Lass with heart so sweet,
    loved him back with love complete.

    Her hair was red, her eyes were gray.
    Yes, his flesh was hard as they say.

    But her love for him was true,
    she loved her man and the sea so blue.

    But someone brooded, and someone sent
    a curse to them, in form it went,

    great grey hunter, soulless shark,
    sent to dampen their happy spark.

    The sea was dark, the sky was low,
    Lass said she would bathing go.

    Oh, such sorrow, that fate decreed,
    someone rots in hell for that deed.

    For Lass went in and came not out,
    a thick red mist and bloodstained snout.

    The killer fled, his deed discharged,
    The man, he wept. He cried so hard.

    Cannot accept though knows it true,
    his love will stay with the ocean blue.

    The man who was, I speak of he,
    who loved a girl, who loved the sea,

    The sea betrayed him, his love so true.
    Friend, she can’t come back to you.

    Can you hear his lonely cries?
    Now he’ll mourn her till he dies.

    Deanna Coghlan

    “All I Said…”

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    41FHK43TTAL. SL500 AA300  All I Said...I love C. S. Lewis’s writings.  I fell in love with The Chronicles of Narnia All I Said... at a young age, and they were the very first books that I ever bought with my own money.  They’re still among the very few books that I can never tire of reading or hearing.

    I read The Screwtape Letters All I Said... as a young teen, perhaps around the of 13, and was struck by his insight into human nature.  A couple of years ago I tackled Mere Christianity All I Said..., savoring it in tiny servings because that was the only way my feeble brain could digest it.

    Now we have a book of daily readings from his works All I Said... and I am rediscovering his genius.

    Screwtape’s last advice on using daily annoyances to distract a Patient:

    In civilised life domestic hatred usually expresses itself by saying things which would appear quite harmless on paper (the words are not offensive) but in such a voice, or at such a moment, that they are not far short of a blow in the face.  To keep this game up you and Glubose must see to it that each of these two fools has a sort of double standard.  Your patient must demand that all his own utterances are to be taken at their face value and judged simply on the actual words, while at the same time judging all his mother’s utterances with the fullest and most over-sensitive interpretation of the tone and the context and the suspected intention.  She must be encouraged to do the same to him.  Hence from every quarrel they can both go away convinced, or very nearly convinced, that they are quite innocent.  You know the kind of thing: ‘I simply ask her what time dinner will be and she flies into a temper.’ Once this habit is well established you have the delightful situation of a human saying things with the express purpose of offending and yet having a grievance when offense is taken. (emphasis mine)

    - from The Screwtape Letters All I Said...

    It’s easy to point fingers and I couldn’t help but laugh at how many times I have seen my children treat one another like this, but of course it begs the question:  Am I guilty of the same?  Are you?

    There was no civil war

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    We are currently reorganizing our library and having fun discovering long-lost books along the way.  Wait – that’s misleading.  Reorganizing suggests that it was organized at some point in the past.  At any rate, I had at least one ulterior motive: I’m pleased that my nefarious plan to get our kids to voluntarily read some non-fiction is working.

    That’s why I found The Politically Incorrect Guide to the South There was no civil war
    lying open this morning.  This is all a lead-up to the following quote, which I couldn’t help but share:

    There was no civil war

    On strict definition, a civil war is between at least two political factions trying to take over the same government by violent means.  The South had no intention of taking over the government of the United States when eleven states left the Union between December 1860 and May 1861.  The Southern states’ intention was to establish a confederacy of slaveholding governments that would peacefully co-exist with the United States on its northern border.  The new Confederate leaders wanted peace, not war, and they believed the United States Constitution was written as a compact among states from which secession was an obvious option if the central government seemed overbearing.  In other words, they did not think the Union was irrevocable.

    Did you know that?  Did you learn that in your history class?  I didn’t think so.  Regardless of how you feel about the the War Between the States, there is unquestionably some historical revision going on in our nation’s textbooks.  After all, the side that won the war gets to write the history.

    A bit of poetry

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    by Megan (11 yo)

    Magic

    “Half penny faerie seeds”

    The man said.

    “and pixie dust and dragon eggs,

    and poppies of bright red.”

    Said I to him,

    “How do I know they’ll grow?”

    “They never will if you don’t believe.”

    And as his words echoed emptily,

    I felt kinda, sorta, sad,

    that magic was so cheap and fake,

    that’s how it could be had.

    To Lydia

    Sour faced Lyds,

    with your hands on your hips,

    has a kind word ever passed from your lips?

    Your sisters faint in terror,

    at the mention of your name.

    Your looks are like my Lion,

    He’s never known as “tame”

    And I’m sure that my pet dragon

    would run right out of flame,

    merely at the whisper,

    of your atrocious name.

    Beast

    “I’m a Lion!”  the child said.

    “But you haven’t any claws.”

    “I’m a hissing viper of red!”

    “But you haven’t any fangs.”

    “I’m a charging bull instead!”

    “You are my child, now go to bed!”

    Name

    My mama had a baby, but it hasn’t got a name.

    One look inside that name book, and frightened we became,

    by Hydie’s, and Katies, and Idas’ and Shaynes,

    the James-es and Freydas and Lylas and Raines,

    and Daddy said, “Oh hang it all! Why bother with a name?!”

    Chocolate

    It melts in your mouth,

    then sticks to your tongue,

    runs down your throat,

    its chocolate, Oh yum!

    Brothers

    Mama said don’t steal,

    but he stole it anyway.

    The Bible says to love,

    but he hates me all the same.

    Sometimes I kinda love him,

    sometimes I’m kinda afraid.

    But no matter what we do or say,

    He’s my brother anyway.

    Wind and Air

    We couldn’t live without it,

    we die when we don’t have it,

    it’s every where around us,

    it’s our life and breath.

    How many times do we think about it?

    How many times do we wonder?

    How many times do we thank the One,

    who gave us lungs to breathe it,

    eyes to see it, and ears to hear it?

    Giveaway: Great Authors Webinar

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    If you’re not familiar with a webinar, let me explain: it’s like a seminar that you attend via the internet.  The Great Authors Webinar will be a series of 7 live lectures that you can hear online in real time, followed by a Q&A session in which participants (like you!) can actually interact with the speakers.

    Great Authors 4 Giveaway: Great Authors Webinar

    Registration is just $55/household for all 7 sessions, and includes the following authors:

    speaker Phillips Giveaway: Great Authors Webinar

    April 15 — ‘Why Poetry Matters

    Doug Phillips, Founder and President of Vision Forum, discussing Poems for Patriarchs.

    speaker Sproul Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarApril 22 — ‘Biblical Economics and the Christian Family’

    Dr. R.C. Sproul, Jr., Founder of the Highlands Ministries and Teaching Fellow at Ligonier Ministries, discusses Biblical Economics.

    speaker Morris Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarApril 29 — ‘The Truth about the Fossil Record’

    Dr. John Morris, President of ICR, discusses The Fossil Record: Unearthing Nature’s History of Life.

    speaker Grant Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarMay 6 — ‘The Most Dangerous Woman of the 20th Century’

    Dr. George Grant, Director of the King’s Meadow Study Center, discusses the founder of Planned Parenthood in Killer Angel.

    speaker Bond Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarMay 13 — ‘The Wonderful and Mysterious Life of John Calvin’

    Douglas Bond, popular author of more than twelve books, discusses The Betrayal.

    speaker Swanson Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarMay 20 — ‘The Future Christian Republic’

    Kevin Swanson, Director of Generations with Vision, discusses The Second Mayflower.

    speaker Baucham Giveaway: Great Authors WebinarMay 27 — ‘How to Be a Man’

    Dr. Voddie Baucham, popular speaker and author, discusses, What He Must Be…If He Wants to Marry My Daughter.

    Isn’t that an amazing lineup?  Don’t worry if you sign up and miss a session.  Registrants will be able to access mp3 files afterward.
    When you sign up, you can add all 7 of their books for just $61 more – that gives you all 7 books plus the seminar for less than the regular cost of the books alone!
    THE GIVEAWAY
    And here’s the giveaway: one household two households will get to register for free!  There are 5 ways to enter, giving you up to 5 chances to win:
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    Please make my life easier by leaving a separate comment for each of your entries!  We’ll accept entries through April 6 so get started!

    Princess Adelina

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    Ok, I promise not to bombard you with announcements of Vision Forum’s huge Spring Savings Sale, but did I mention that for the 5 remaining days of this sale, their customary Deal of the Day will be discounted much more than the usual 50%?

    Just check the left sidebar of the Vision Forum website any time to see today’s deal.

    35460 m Princess AdelinaYesterday, it was Jonathan Park: The Adventure Begins (4 CDs) for just $4!  The special price is gone, but it’s still a fantastic set.  If you haven’t introduced your children to Jonathan Park yet, do it! You won’t be sorry.  You’ll probably find yourself sucked into the stories as well, and your kids will recite creation factoids for years to come.  This is fun stuff, well done and educational – that’s a hard balance to strike, but the Jonathan Park series does it.

    47832 m Princess AdelinaToday’s Deal of the Day is even closer to our heart: Princess Adelina is just $2.70 for a beautiful hardback book. This story of a 7th century missionary daughter who married a heathen leader and helped spread the gospel in early Germany was our family project last year.  We found an old copy and prepared a new updated manuscript which Vision Forum published for us.  We think it’s like a Henty for girls – a wonderful story of a brave, strong, virtuous young woman who made a real difference in history while working inside the role of a godly woman.

    Now you understand why I had to plug it today, right?  Princess Adelina is ours. After this, I’ll just keep putting the Deal of the Day in the sidebar if I think it’s really exciting.

    E-books!

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    You probably thought we forgot, but actually I’m just procrastinating.  We still want to publish our 2 e-books, but we’re caught up in the details.

    Maybe you can help us.

    One big detail for both books is the number of photos.  We don’t have any for the cookbook, and very few for Big Family, Small House.  How important do you think photos are in an e-book?  Do they just make the file bigger to download, or do they really add to the reading experience?

    For the cookbook in particular, how important is it to have photos of the finished product?  I can see how it would be helpful, but it would also really increase the file size and slow down the project.  Should we invest the time?  Maybe just a few photos here and there?

    And what shall we call our cookbook?  I have to admit, I’m rather pleased with it and I want the perfect title.  It’s over 50 of our favorite recipes.  Most (but not all) are frugal and easy, and all are rated for difficulty so you’ll know whether to turn your 9yo loose in the kitchen.  I also included all the cheeky chitchat that you find when I post recipes to the blog.

    So what would you call it?  Something fun, something frugal, something kid-friendly but not just for kids…help!

    Backyard Homestead for half price today!

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    Every day Vision Forum has a Deal Of The Day in the sidebar of their website.   Today it’s a good ‘un!

    Back when Vision Forum first started carrying The Backyard Homestead, it was new to me.  I grabbed  a copy as soon as I saw it!  It’s packed full of very helpful info to help you make the most of your resources – even on a modest city lot.

    43822 m Backyard Homestead for half price today!

    It’s not just about gardening, although that is certainly included.  You will also learn about fruit trees and berries, and livestock appropriate for city or suburban settings, like chickens, rabbits, goats and even bees.

    There are recipes for an easy homemade mozzarella-type cheese (I need to try that!), complete instructions for making yogurt, tips on growing sprouts,  bread recipes and more.

    And…I think there’s more, but…we I can’t find my copy.  I think we accidentally sold my copy on our For Sale page…grrr…

    Guess I should pick one up while it’s half price.

    tip: although the deal of the day will disappear and be replaced by another deal, it might be available for another day.  Most seem to stay valid for 48 hours instead of just the 24 that you see it in the sidebar.

    free copy of Passionate Housewives Desperate For God!

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    Passionate Housewives by Jennie Chancey and Stacy McDonald has been a perennial bestseller at Vision Forum since it was released.  We have bought several copies as gifts for young Christian wives struggling to be godly wives with the modern influences of feminism all around them.

    You just pay shipping, so consider tossing some other goodies in the cart while you’re there.  It’s the frugal thing to do, like combining your errands to save gas.  Need ideas?  The Vision Forum Clearance Outlet is always a good place to start.  It’s also linked in our sidebar.  We like to make these things easy for you.  We’re just thoughtful like that. [buy something...buy something...buy something...] 84332 m free copy of Passionate Housewives Desperate For God!

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    Hurry – the offer expires Friday at midnight!

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