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So thankful during labor for:

  • Hubby, who knows and reads me better than anyone else in the world. After so many labors, I hardly have to ask for anything. He seems to know instinctively when I need a back rub, when I need a gentle hand or an encouraging word, and when I just need some privacy.
  • Liquid calcium, still my drug of choice for labor pains and after pains.
  • Birthing pool, filled to the brim with very warm water. The deck ended up being a great place, as we didn’t have to think twice about spilling and sloshing. As the water cooled, we just turned on the hose (hooked up to the hot washer valve in the house) and let it overflow, slowly heating the water.
  • The shade that Hubby set up, using stepladders and a blanket.
  • My frozen frapuccinos to sip – they sit so nicely in a nervous, laboring tummy!
  • The fact that the computer was right between the pool and the bathroom. This certainly made blogging easier!
  • A beautiful south Texas day. Warm and dry, but not blistering hot – perfect for an outdoor delivery.

Wish I had thought of:

  • A tennis ball for massaging that same spot in my back that (as Hubby reminded me) has plagued me with every labor.
  • Something to sit on in the pool during the actual delivery. The cushioned bottom was comfy for laboring, but a low underwater stool of some sort might have been more practical for pushing and delivery.
  • More practical pool attire. I wore a short gown of cotton/polyester. This worked, but a lighter fabric would have held far less water. Mom joked that I should wear a negligee next time.
  • A birthing ball. The more I think about this, the better it sounds. There were several times during labor when it seemed like the perfect idea. I want to remember to have one on hand next time around.
  • The acoustics of our hilly neighborhood. Sound can sometimes carry in amazing ways here. I wonder how many neighbors heard me yelling during the last moments of delivery? And how many of them didn’t assume it was just our girls playing loud girly games? Gulp.

The Boy

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The Boy and I are doing fine, and Hubby is still blissfully uploading pictures and videos – in between cooking, cleaning and cracking the proverbial whip over the older 7 children.

I feel fantastic after a long but fairly easy labor. I always feel a bit like a phony for lying about in bed when what I really want to do is run laps around the house, but I’m obediently resting while Hubby is home. I’ve learned the hard way that it’s much easier to rest now when I don’t feel like I need to, than in a week or two when I start to feel run down because I didn’t rest enough at first.

Thank you again for the outpouring of prayers and encouragement during labor! It was wonderful to have so many “visitors” that I’ve never met before, and I’m glad that so many people enjoyed being able to share in The Boy’s birth. I thought live-blogging was a fun idea (I think it was originally Hubby’s idea), but we never imagined how special it would be to so many people!

Just a few more quick details

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Born at 7:03 PM, 13 minutes after my water broke. 3 long pushes, I think. And yes, born in the little birthing pool outside on the deck. Not a swimming pool, mind you. Nice warm water.
8 lbs, 9 oz. Our biggest by one ounce.
21.5 inches long
Dark hair
Proud daddy has already posted lots of pictures. My favorite is here.

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Whew!

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I’m glad that’s done!

Thank you for all your prayers, well-wishes and encouragement. I didn’t get a chance to read every comment, but I look forward to doing so in quiet moments.

Now I have to relearn how to type with one hand as I nurse in front of the computer. Blog posts may get a lot shorter from now on.

And happy birthday to my beautiful Mom! How many 52yo mothers of 14/grandmothers of 16 do you know that look this good? grandma%20b Whew!

PS After having a good look at my belly, our 4yo is pretty sure the little guy will having a twin.

My boy!

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boy My boy!
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it’s…it’s…it’s…

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a boy 7:03 pm

no name yet……

Poolside update

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Not quite pool side…but Kim joked about coming in and makeing a post “just to be a show off” and then started getting some strong contractions with a bit of the urge to bear down. So she stayed put.

This may be the last update for a good while

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Quote from the midwife

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five minutes ago…

“8cm and not fully effaced”

quick update

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Right after the last post Kim got a doozy of a contraction and the baby picked that precise moment to start wiggling about.

So back to the pool it was. It took her about 10 minutes to settle in and for the contractions to resume in ernest. While out of the pool they were intense and coming faster and faster. The last few were about 2 min apart. Once back in the pool it took a good while for them to build back up in intensity but we’re getting there and they are back under about 4 min. ( I keep syaing about ’cause it’s been a half hour since we actually timed them.)

Her mom is sitting with her by the pool while I type.

That’s Kim typing the last post.

TTFN

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Just one more

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The pool was a little too relaxing – or was it the 4 people watching me, waiting for the next contraction?
At any rate, I climbed out and they hit again in full force, at 2-3 minutes apart. Still manageable (where are my psychological signposts?!) but taking all my attention to make it through each one.
I’m wondering now where I am…7 cm? 8? I’m not scared or shaky (as would be typical at 7-10 cm), but I know my body has been working a lot since I was at 5 cm. But internal exams are uncomfortable to say the least, and I can’t bring myself to request one. I’ll just have to stay in suspense along with everyone else.

Getting in the pool now

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Real pain, and regular contractions. Sounds like time for the pool. Hubby may have to update from here, unless the pool is too relaxing and they drag me back out.
icon smile Getting in the pool now

A momentous occasion

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The plastic sheet is going on the bed. Things are moving!
Contractions are now so strong that I have to stop talking and breathe through each one. I might be more inclined to complain if I hadn’t been waiting so long for the pain to start!

About 8 minutes apart

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Yes, I know. I was at 6 minutes several times earlier today. But these contractions feel different. These mean business. I wonder how much longer I can hide out before they come check on me?

shhh

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I’m supposed to be napping now, but with nobody looking over my shoulder I’m finally getting some stronger contractions. I guess this baby is shy.
Maybe I’ll just hide out in my room with the computer and pretend to be sleeping. Whatever works!

Nothing much happening here

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Kim is out walking on the drive with the midwife while I finish cleaning the kitchen.

Seems everytime she comes in and tries to settle down all the contractions stop. As long as she is walking they stay steady (6 min or so) but not too hard.

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It’s official

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I’m 4-5 cm. dilated. I’m not a slacker anymore – well, at least not if I give birth sometime today. But of course my contractions got stage fright and took off as soon as the midwives arrived.
I’ll have a bite to eat, then go outside for a walk. Between the exam, and the walk, and maybe a bit of Blue Cohosh, we’re all hoping to get things kicked into gear.
Then I can get into the pool, which hubby has been working tirelessly to keep nice and warm.

Going swimming

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P6250317 Going swimming
The midwife will be here soon, and I’m heading for the pool. Not a swimming pool, but the birthing pool my sister sent over. It’s a nice deep little inflatable pool, and it even has a cushioned bottom. My sister (not the one that’s expecting any day) used it last summer and said it was great!
Hubby and my dad think it’s a little crazy, but the pool is set up outside on the deck. Yes, we just might have an outdoor birth. Not because we’re hippies (we’re not) but because:

a) it’s plenty warm out there, and I tend to get cold esp. in labor
b) the deck will make cleanup a snap if I actually do give birth out there
c) our house is at the end of a long and bumpy drive, far out of sight of the road, and the deck is 10 feet off the ground. Nobody’s gonna see.

My dad’s afraid that after an outdoor birth we’ll want to name the baby Rainbow or Cloud or something. Not to worry; Hubby told his parents that he’s leaning toward Alphonse Leroy.
icon smile Going swimming

A little more detail

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Alright, I guess live-blogging warrants a little more detail.
Contractions were ~20 minutes apart throughout the night, and again nothing that kept me from sleeping. I woke up frequently but got plenty of rest overall.
Things kicked up a bit around 6:30 and I started timing contractions when I got out of bed a little after 7.
Here’s the timetable I have so far:
7:21
7:26
7:35/37 (double peak)
7:41
7:46
7:53
7:58

Did I mention the part about, “Ow”? These are entirely manageable still, but definitely stronger than any contractions I’ve had so far with this pregnancy.
Sounds promising, right?

Every six minutes, and ow!

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Waking up hubby and calling the midwife, in that order. Today’s the day! I think

Castor Oil

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I didn’t use it. I just tasted it.
It doesn’t count, because I took less than a teaspoon. But after reading the websites I just had to find what could possibly taste so horrible that 75% of the material I read is dedicated to how one can cover the taste and texture.
Hubby and I both sampled, and agreed that it had almost no flavor at all. It’s thick and oily, which could be gross to some people (esp. to the ones trying to down the whole 4 oz. at once) but just in case anyone out there is considering this route, don’t worry about the taste.
Not that I’m considering trying it. I just wondered what it would taste like. Hypothetically.

WalMart again

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Hubby and I puttered about the house for most of the day then ran to town to do some errands, hoping that something would shake loose. Something like a baby.
No such luck. We went to Chili’s for a spicy appetizer. Apparently spicy food doesn’t help, though some of the looks I got were pretty entertaining.
We went to the health food store for some liquid calcium, my drug of choice when it comes to labor pains and after pains.
We went to Blockbuster’s for a new selection of videos to keep our brains mushy just in case we found a good reason to stay up all night. You know, a reason like real labor.
We went to WalMart, mostly because we were already in town and what’s a trip to town without WalMart? OK, if you must know, I bought a bottle of Castor Oil while I was there. Just a little bottle for $2. I’m not using it – it’s just here if I change my mind. Or my sister might want it. I’m not using it. Really. But theoretically, how much would a pregnant woman take? The dosages on the bottle leaves a lot of room for desparation or lack thereof.
My mom also helpfully offered to let me paint the inside of her house, in the interest of getting labor in gear again. She’s so selfless that way. icon smile WalMart again
We’ll see. Things seem to be picking up a bit again, and the children have an overnight invitation to stay with my parents at their house just over the hill.

Wouldn’t you know it!

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I called the midwife and left a message ~8AM. My mom called and made plans to pick up the children between 9 and 10, and…

drumroll…

Contractions stopped.

icon smile Wouldnt you know it!

So I promised to keep the midwife updated; the kids grabbed swimsuits and squirt guns and left with Grandma (whose birthday is tomorrow, don’t forget!) and I took a nap.

Still nothing much happening, though Hubby is finishing up a bit of drywall work in the girls’ closet (hurrah!)
“At this rate,” I told him, “I could hold out til Mom’s birthday tomorrow. Or the 4th of July.”

Still wondering and waiting

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I woke up at 6 AM, and found myself still having regular but mild contractions every 10 minutes or so. Not sure what to think, since I was able to sleep through them. I’ll putter around the house, give the midwife another few minutes of sleep and get her opinion on the matter. At this point it seems like a bad idea to hop in the van with a bunch of kids and my also-overdue sister to drive 70 miles for our prenatal appointments.
Hubby says it’s no problem to stay home a bit til we figure out a course of action, so I’m not worried.

Was going to say let’s all get some sleep, but…

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When I climbed out of bed to post once more, my dwindling contractions went from 12 or 15 minutes apart to 6 or 7.
Now do I call the midwife and start pacing, or go back to bed? If it’s real nothing will stop it, so I’m leaning toward bed. Might as well get some sleep if/while I can. Something is happening, but I don’t want to wait up all night to see what it is. It’s nothing I can’t sleep through at this point. What if it doesn’t really get moving til morning, and I’m already tired out for no good reason?
Yeah…bed.
But I’ll leave the computer up and running for a quick post if the occasion should arise.

Still saying, hmmm…

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Not strong at all, but still regular at about 12 minutes apart. Is this a repeat of last Monday, or The Real Thing?
Maybe I should find something else to paint.

Just thought I’d mention it

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4 or 5 contractions in a row, less than 15 minutes apart. Not noteworthy in itself, but more regular than any I’ve noticed in the last week.

Kinda makes ya go Hmmm…