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Essential oils: how do you use them?

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Today while I was weedeating (notice how casually I slipped that in, as if I do this regularly?  Did I fool you?), I noticed a familiar scent.  The scrubby little weeds that had popped up all over our rocky yard were lavender!  Our only other experience with lavender until now has been the delicious lavender lemonade served to us when we visited Samantha’s lavender/blackberry farm last year.

When I was done weedeating, I uprooted a small specimen and brought it in excitedly to show the kids.

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Of course we got right online to confirm my discovery and find uses for it.  We also remembered the bottle of lavender essential oil that we inherited when my sister moved into an apartment in town.

After exploring the many uses for lavender oil, we moved on to eucalyptus oil which Perry likes to use as an insect repellent.  Then we checked out tea tree oil just because we have some, and orange, peppermint and cinnamon oil because I’d love an excuse to buy some.

I was amazed at the variety of uses for these, which brings me to my question: do you use essential oils?  What are your favorites, and what do you do with them? How do you use them?

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Quick poll to satisfy my kids’ curiosity

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When I was a kid, it was almost a running joke in the family that our dad took the fun out of everything by making us write a paper about it.  Well, it would have been a joke if any of us thought it was funny at the time.

Trip to the zoo?  ”You’re writing about it when we get home.”  Visit the Alamo?  ”Better take notes for the paper you’ll be writing.”  ”You want to go shopping for a new pair of shoes?  Write an essay to convince me you need them before we leave the house.”

Well, my kids really, really want to know how many readers we have.  Maybe I’ll honor the family tradition and turn this into a homeschooling project by making them chart the results and write an essay analyzing the information.  Would a tiny bit of sadistic glee encourage you to take the time to click the poll button?

We know our stats – how many pageviews we get each day.  But I know that not everyone visits every single day.  We’d really love to know how many casual internet acquaintances just drop in every now and then to see us, even if they have never left a comment.  That’s why we’re using a poll instead of asking you to leave a comment – though you’re always invited to leave a comment if you’d like!

How often do you read Life in a Shoe?

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Are your kids accident prone?

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This morning several of the kids were down on the trampoline.  The house was peaceful, but the sound of screaming drifted across the hills.

I wondered aloud whether they were happy screams and Deanna voiced her opinion: Assume they’re happy until you see the blood.

Actually, she’s right.  That pretty well sums up how I operate, and it has worked out well for us so far in spite of the accident-prone gene carried by their father.

In 16 years of child-rearing, we’ve never had one accident-related visit to the ER.  The Superman incident only resulted in a walk-in visit to the doctor’s office, for which we paid $300 for “outpatient surgery” because he applied a splint to her arm.

Deanna and I did go to the ER long ago for carbon monoxide poisoning when the furnace flue in our old house backed up, and we visited the ER again when a congenital issue acted up in one of the girls, but neither of those were injuries caused by accidents.  Well, the flue didn’t exactly collapse on purpose, but you know what I mean…

All in all, I think that’s a good record.  But I won’t get smug about it – I know that pride goes before a fall, and as soon as I check that “I’m a good parent” box we’ll have 6 visits in a month.

But what about your family?  How well does the ER team know your kids?  Are you brave enough to tell?

How often do your children visit the emergency room for accidents?

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Left handed or right handed? A thoroughly unscientific poll

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THE NUMBERS

Hubby and I are left-handed, and so are 4 of our 9 children.  Maybe even 5.  We’re still waiting on Bethany to make up her mind.  Babies can be so indecisive.

I know those stats are way off from the average.  I believe estimates of how many people are left-handed vary from 3-10% of the population, and our household has at least 54%.  Now I’m wondering if our family is a collective freak of nature – wait, don’t answer that – or if “handedness” can be hereditary.  I know theories abound, but there seems to be very little proof for any of them.

WHY?

I have heard that being left-handed is sometimes connected to a lack of oxygen or other trauma at birth.  Yes, I’m left-handed.  Quit snickering.  I was nearly 10 lbs, and was born with the aid of forceps.  Out of the 14 children in my parents family, only one other is left-handed.  He was over 10 lbs, and was very slow to start breathing.  The theory seems to hold in my parents’ family.

I don’t think my mother-in-law had a particularly hard time with hubby’s birth, but he was her first, and first labors are often the hardest.  He also tells me that he was more ambidextrous than just left-handed, but his parents thought it was cute for him to use his left hand and encouraged him to do so.

I also can’t help but wonder if it can be learned.  My children see me eat and write with my left hand.  Maybe I instinctively place the fork or pencil in their left hand, subtly encouraging them to favor that hand?

MY FAVORITE THEORY

This doesn’t explain why a person favors a certain hand, but I think I have noticed a pattern that can predict which hand a person will favor.

You know the whorl of hair on a baby’s head?  You can often still see it on adults and children with very short hair.  It’s usually on the left side, so a person’s hair naturally parts to the left.  I think many left-handers have a whorl or part on the right side instead.  Check it out.  Ask a few random people who part their hair on the right side, if you can find any.  They’re in the minority, and in my admittedly limited surveys, I have found that something like 50% are left handed.

What do you think?

A POLL

I thought a few polls might satisfy our curiosity.  Please feel free to answer as many times as you like,  not just for your own family but for any others for which you know the answer.

In a family with 2 left-handed parents:

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In a family 1 left-handed and 1 right-handed parent:

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More of your questions answered

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This question came in several forms from quite a few readers:

I’d like to know more about your home schooling day.

[choking down maniacal laughter]  Our school day tends to be rather informal.  I operate under a general sort of theory that if their brains aren’t rotting, they must be growing.  We have no TV or video games, which heads off a lot of rot from the outset.  Computer time is strictly monitored and limited to educational activities: DIVE math, typing lessons, blogging, graphic design, entrepreneurial endeavors, researching the homeschool question of the day that popped into somebody’s head…

Having said all that, our typical day does include some formal schooling, though it doesn’t follow a strict schedule.  Rather, we follow an orderly progression.  My mantra is jobs, Bible, school.  Did you do it? If the house isn’t a wreck when we wake up we read Bible first, but some of us find that very difficult when we’re surrounded by the aftermath of a hurricane.

After private Bible reading which consists of 2-10 chapter/day depending upon reading level and speed, the older children do Saxon math, non-fiction reading, and writing of some sort including but not limited to blogging; book report; summary of Bible reading or non-fiction reading; letters to friends or relatives, etc.  I check their writing for spelling, style and grammar, bringing problems to their attention.

This changes often and there are a couple of items that we intend to add soon, but that’s currently what they do.

The younger ones do math workbooks from Spectrum, reading, writing and catechism.  The very young have a brief phonics lesson and catechism.

Our day may also include reading/watching news articles together, discussing political issues, listening to history lectures, discussing our Bible reading, studying church history for Sunday school, reading aloud, sewing and cooking, etc.

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Well…sadly enough we are still procrastinating.  We have resolved to launch our 2 e-books before we fully launch the bunkbed project.  They are nearly ready, but since we’ve never done this before we’re having trouble tying up loose ends and finalizing the project.

Right now, the older 4 are sleeping happily on the shelves that we bought from Costco as a temporary trial.  They are using 3″ memory foam cut into 24″ pads, though we may end up doubling these for longterm comfort.  The baby still sleeps in her playpen, and the 4 younger ones sleep on the 2 sofas in the living room.  This is working very well as a temporary solution for all, though we’re still very excited about building our bunks with the flip-up storage under each mattress.

How about a recipe or two? Then again, this isn’t the stage of pregnancy to write about recipes: food – gotta have it, but boy is it disgusting to think about it (or smell it).

You are so right.  No recipes.  Nope.  Nuh-uh.  Next question?

A riddle?

Ok.  Here’s one that came to me recently.

I think most of you knew how fun I thought it would be if 17mo Bethany were born on June 28th – we like “special” birthdays, and she would have shared a birthday not just with her brother, but with her grandma and cousin.  As it turned out, she was born on June 27th instead, just one day shy of her brother’s second birthday.  That’s ok, because she shares a birthday with my brother-in-law’s new bride. We didn’t know Aunt Roxie’s birthday until afterward, but they were married just a couple of weeks later and a brand new birthday-buddy niece was the perfect wedding gift!

But here’s the riddle:  it just occurred to me why we missed the mark.  Does anyone know why Bethany’s birthday didn’t land on June 28th like it should have?

And here’s another birthday riddle from my family.  I’ve told this story before, so sit on your hands if you already know the answer.

My parents have twins, a boy and a girl.  The girl shares a birthday with her brother, but the boy doesn’t share a birthday with his sister.  How can this be?

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Just sent this email to my bank

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This has been a source of frustration for some time, and I’m finally doing something about it.  I’m totally serious here, and I can’t wait to see what the answer is.

I have a question about nicknames for accounts.
I have named each of my accounts without trouble, except the one I would like to call tithes.
Your site does not permit me to use that word or anything similar.  I tried tithing and tithe, and was forbidden each time.
I was allowed to name it anything else I wanted: church, money for God, Brittany Spears, koran, nonsense, asdfklfg, brothel, etc.  Every name is allowed except tithe.  Oh – and John Wayne.  That wasn’t allowed for some reason.  Is there a connection?  I don’t know, but I hope you do.  I think this is absolutely bizarre and would love to know how Wells Fargo explains it.
I have tried multiple times on many different occasions, and always get the same results.
I asked about this at a local branch and received a puzzled reply – he simply had no idea.
Do you?

I also thought about trying out the name Drug Money but that seemed a bit risky, a little like greeting a Border Patrol officer in Spanish.

update:

I received this prompt response, but it was only halfway helpful:

We apologize that you experienced difficulty accessing in nicknaming your account(s) online. This issue has been resolved.

I have completed your request to nickname your account tithes ending in ****.

We monitor our systems continuously, seven days a week so that we can correct problems quickly when they do occur. Most times it is a momentary problem. We are dedicated to providing reliable online service.

Whenever you need account information, please contact us at 1-800-956-4442. Bankers are available to assist you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Thank you for your patience.

Sincerely,
[name removed for privacy]
[My Bank] Online Customer Service

Here’s my followup email, sent just a moment ago:

Thank you very much.  My account finally has the name I wanted, but my curiosity is not allayed.
Can you explain why the system would not allow me to assign that nickname?

I really like Maggie’s and MBR’s theory, but I want to verify it – and I want to see if the bank can figure it out themselves.  I scratched my head over the issue for months.  Let’s see if they know the answer to their own puzzle.

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Announcement

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When I posted about my grand idea, I mentioned that we were hoping you would help us pay for it.

We’re nearly ready to get started, but we need your help with part of the fund raising:  we are releasing our first 2 e-books ever!  These have been in the works for a while, always on the back burner, but the prospect of our new BunkBeds has motivated me to finish them.  There’s a third one as well, but it’s far from done.   It was actually the first one I started.  Maybe if y’all are excited enough about the first 2, I’ll find the time to finish the other one.  icon smile Announcement

Right now, we need your input on the cover for one, Big Family, Small House.

We have drafted several designs, And each of us thinks our favorite is the best.  We want you to take sides help us choose.  Just to keep it fair and prevent you from choosing mine just because you like me best, we’ll assign numbers instead of names to the choices.

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So here’s the big question.  Please leave a comment if You have suggestions, opinions or input!

Which cover should we use?

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Annual staff photo, take 2. New family photo.

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Apparently I got a passing grade on my lesson last week, because the 2009 staff  photo was a delight today.

We left on time, and stopped  along the way for a delicious, relaxing, cheap breakfast at Burger King.  Sausage biscuits and hashbrowns for $1 are hard to beat!

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We easily arrived on time,

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everyone was in good spirits, the weather was beautiful, and the photo shoot went off without a hitch.  Unlike most other years, we had not a hint of vomit anywhere.  Be sure to watch for the staff photo inside the front cover of your new Vision Forum catalog soon.

Afterward each family was treated to an individual photo session, courtesy of several accomplished photographers.  I’m not sure who took this one, but I like it.  Do we make good-looking kids, or what?

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Then we topped it all off with a second breakfast of ice cream.

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We dropped hubby at work and did a few errands before going home.  In the process, we skipped lunch and had half-price Cherry Limeades from Sonic during happy hour.  Still no vomit.  We’re on a roll!

It’s going to take one super-healthy dinner to make up for our diet so far today.  Maybe we’ll go all the way and eat cookies instead of dinner.  Or maybe we’ll just celebrate the crashing blood sugar with a 5 o’clock nap.

Quick vote!  What would you do?

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Poll: late walkers

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The poll on early walkers was fun and we learned a lot.  Thanks to everyone who took time to participate!

I have a friend who thinks her boy is a sure winner when it comes to late walkers, so here’s a new poll for you.  Since developmental delays often contribute to late walking, please answer based on your latest non-developmentally delayed child.

What was the age of your latest walker?

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Our latest was 15 months.  I thought it was pretty unusual at the time, but I was fresh out of my parents’ house where babies walked at 7 months.  Now I know that things work a little differently, so don’t be afraid of shocking me.  I can take it.  Anyway, I still think my friend’s son can totally beat yours in this poll.

If you’re feeling self-conscious for the sake of your child, take heart.  Research indicates that children who crawl longer tend to do better in math, spelling, and spatial skills.

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Diapers

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just a quick tip to let you know that I’ve been posting a bit more at my other blog.  Go put in your 2 cents’ worth – I’d love to know what you think.

Cloth diapers: why I shunned them for 15 years. Why we switched.

Poll: cloth diapers

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How early can a baby walk?

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Bethany has started walking over the past week!
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She’s 13th months which, I think, makes her precisely average in the realm of newly-walking babies.

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Now we’re wondering – because homeschoolers are a curious lot – how early can a baby walk?  Inquiring minds want to know.  Ours have ranged from 9-15 months when they began, but I have one sister, one brother, and at least 2 nieces who took off at 7 months.  Not just cruising or balancing in a semi-upright position, but really and truly walking.  Running, even.  Can you beat that?

I know how hard it is for lurkers to leave a real comment (hint, hint) so I’ve created 2 polls to make it easy for everyone to speak up, but be aware that if you claim your baby walked at 5 months I EXPECT A COMMENT OF EXPLANATION.   You can’t just toss out something amazing and leave us hanging like that.  We’ll go batty.   Can I hear a “yes, ma’am”?

How early did your earliest walker walk?

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